Women attending the Musjid for Congregational Salaah

Q: Please can you clarify for me. There is a masjid/classrooms/ladies namaaz area in one building. The masjid-mens namaaz area is on the first floor. The wuzu khanaa, classrooms and ladies namaaz area downstairs. The classrooms are used for namaaz when there is an overflow of males. The ladies area has a separate entrance door to that for the men and classrooms.

In some peoples mind, the ladies area does not form part of the masjid. They call it rooms. So they say, the ladies are not going to the masjid. Is this thinking correct? Can the ladies go to the masjid/rooms to make namaazCan the ladies read namaaz behind an Imam in JamaatCan the ladies go to the masjid/rooms to read namaaz but not in JamaatCan the ladies go to the masjid/rooms to read Taraweeh salaat in JamaatCan the ladies go to the masjid/rooms to listen to lectures? Can the ladies go to the masjid/rooms for a nikahCan the Bride go to the masjid for her nikah but being in the ladies section? 

Are Ladies permitted to go to the masjid for any reason whatsoever?

Can the ladies go for Eid Namaaz to an Eid Ghah?

Please advise.

References for some Aahaadith relating to death, passing away in Makkah and Madinah, etc

Q: 

  1. The Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) said something to this effect: Be careful! Those who were before you, used to transform the graves of their prophets and pious people in places of worship, beware of transforming tombs as places of worship. I forbid you this. (Saheeh Muslim) Please give me the page number.
  2. The Surah tabarakallazi said to Allah Ta’ala: “Remove me from your book if you did not forgive him”. Is there any Hadith something to this effect from the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)?
  3. Please mention those Ahaadith which show the virtue of dying in either Makkah or Madinah.
  4. There is a Hadith in Saheeh Bukhaari which mentions the Du’a of Umar (Radiyallahu Anhu) to die as a martyr in the town of the Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam). Please give me the page number.

Men wearing clothing with embroidery

Q: Are men allowed to have embroidery on their clothes? Even little bit embroidery around the neck of the kurta/shirts. I understand heavy and lot of embroidery is a women thing and must be avoided but nowadays we find kurtas/and shirts with little bit work around neck, should it be worn by men or should the garments of the men be plain?

Secondly, it is in a Hadith not to copy non-Muslims. Nowadays Muslim men wear pants and shirts which I think is a western originated dress. You are treated as a weird person if you don't wear, so what should be the ruling about it?

Thirdly, I read somewhere that men should also not wear tight clothes, is it true? Then pants are fitted garments?

Fourthly I also read that men should also not dress up in a way that attracts the opposite sex. 

Please guide me how much of the above information is correct or not. And what should be the ruling about the other questions I asked?

The correct place for a woman

Q: My husband and I both work and pay bills together. I feel that because I work as well he should be helping me with housework. I do the cooking and taking care of the kitchen and laundry and most of the ironing. It's just the cleaning the I need help with most times. And sometimes I want him to do his own ironing. What is the ruling in that? He seems to think it is a wife's duty to do all that work and I'm not fulfilling it. Is he right?