Satisfying one's wife during intimacy

Q:

1. Is it recommended or even mandatory that the woman orgasms during a sexual relationship with her husband.

2. If the husband has reached orgasm, is it mandatory or recommended to wait until the woman has her orgasm and then stop the sexual relationship.

3. For me, once I reach my orgasm (the sperm is out) I cannot continue the sexual activity, but my wife tells me that it is her right to have an orgasm also. The result is that all these words and attitudes have broken the desire for my wife. I do not want to touch my wife because I have a disgust in me. I have the impression that the roles are reversed, although I have always been indulgent in sex with my wife.

All the more her sexual appetite is much greater than mine, please advise us.

Tiles ko saaf karna

Q: Tiles jo zameen par lagi hoti he wo napak hojaye to ponja (geela kapra) lagne se paak hojati he? Jab tile sookh jaye aur uspe koi napaki jese bathroom se layi gayi geeli chappal ka geelapan sookh jaye aur phir dekhai bhi na de tab bhi tile paak khelayi gi?

Dying in a place of sin

Q: I have a strange question I would like to ask. This is a completely hypothetical question. If a Muslim, with the right aqeedah, prayed his prayers and was a good Muslim, for some reason one day decided to go to a place of haram activity, such as a club, or in an extreme example, a strip club, and then was to die at this place, what would become of him Islamically? Would he go straight to hell or would be be saved of this sin because of his aqai'd and his prayers and that his life was taken at this place that he made the mistake of going to?

Doubting whether one had intercourse during haidh

Q: I'm really worried if I committed a sin. Yesterday when I was doing foreplay with my wife, I tried fingering and I saw a little pinkish color on my finger. My wife immediately went to the washroom and checked whether her periods started or not. She confirmed that her periods haven't started so I had sex with her the same night. But today her periods started. I'm worried whether that pinkish color was period blood. Had I committed a sin. Please tell me what I have to do.