The grave of Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) being greater than the Arsh of Allah Ta'ala

Q: Can you please clarify this view mentioned in (Manasik of Mulla Ali al-Qari, p. 531-532)

"The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) is the best and most beloved of all creation, thus even the place where his body rests was given this status that it became the most virtuous of places, even greater than the Arsh."

Is this the view of the Deobandi Ulama and those of the Ahlus Sunnah wal Jamaah? I am very confused. How can the grave of Nabi (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) be greater than the Arsh of Allah ?

Fear for jinn

Q: Is it right to fear jinns because I always see people get very scared about them and wear 'taweez' (surahs written on folded paper), especially in the Indian subcontinent. But the jinns are not as supreme creatures as humans. Though I believe in them, I never fear them, actually I don't care about them. Am I doing right?

Kaffarah for breaking one's oath

Q: I have taken an oath in the name of Allah never to watch TV or movies if my father's blood report comes normal. Alhamdulillah his blood report came normal. A few days back one of my friend's showed me a movie trailer, I told him before that I've made niyyat not to watch TV and movies but he was unaware that day and I coudn't say no to him and unintentionally I wacthed the movie trailer

1. Does my oath still remain? If not, what kaffarah do I have to pay?

2. Does my oath still remain if I broke it or do I have to retake it?

3. I unintentionally broke it but I am scared of my wrongdoing that Allah will punish my father, how do I repent it?

Will hurmat-e-musaaharah become established through shaking hands with an old woman?

Q: If a person has a stomach issue, when he eats spicy or high calories foods, he gets some white drops coming out from his penis in a normal state without any errection or lust. Now if he shakes hands with an old woman without any lust or erection, will this be hurmat?

Please note that there is no lust or erection for this old lady. The person has a stomach heat problem because of which he gets these drops when he eats spicy food.