Celebrating birthdays

Q: I want to ask regarding celebrating family kids birthday parties. My in laws are not very religious so if someone's kid in their family celebrates a birthday party or celebrates a birthday party at home, what should I do?

I tell them that birthdays are not allowed in Islam and they even say "yes we know, we just doing it to keep the kids happy they can get toys or clothes on this occasion". If I don't go then my husband and in laws get upset and they tell me that I am not part of the family.

Forgoing salaah

Q: Its been 7-8months since I’m not praying regularly like most probably 3-4 times a day. For the last 2-3 weeks I’m not getting any fear of Allah and not praying regularly. I’m also feeling bad about not praying but still I’m not getting that fear and praying. Please can you suggest some tips.

Maa baap ki ziyaarat karna

Q: Mere waalid ki wafaat ho gai. Walida bohot zaeef he aur khawind maa se milne nahi deta. 6 mahine se maa ki shakal nahi dekhi. Mere khawind saath bhi nahi rehta. Doosre sheher me apni maa or behno ke paas rehta he. Me apne do chote bacho ke sath akeli rehti hun aur me pregnant bhi hu. Mere sath bohot zulm or na insaafi hoti he.