Q:
1. Agar koi ladki sari zindagi widow rah gyi to kya kya nhi krna chahiye?
Colourful dress
Mehndi ka use hand me ya hair me lagana
Makeup krna
Ye sab nhi krna chahiye kya hamesha white dress pahan na chahiye?
2. Mai nikah ki ring pahni hui hu iddat me ye bhi mana hai?
3. Mujhe sb logon ne kaha hai k tumhari rukhsati nhi huyi thi to iddat ki koi zarurat nhi.
Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 years now. We have no children yet. On multiple occasions I caught him cheating on me with some other girl. I know that he is in love with her. I gave him 3 chances already because I didnt want to give up on our marriage. This year I have seen a lot of improvements in him. He has been trying hard to work on our marriage. We went for Umrah as well this past February. I finally felt like things were getting better between us until two days ago. I found him exchanging messages with that same girl and telling her how he feels. They recently started talking again after a year of no contact. I confronted him and now he is begging for another chance and trying to take care of me. He keeps crying to me about how badly he wants me in his life and how much he needs me and how he made a mistake. I havent told anyone about him cheating on me in the past two years but i think i should share it with his mother now. I cant deal with the emotional pain all by myself anymore. I’m going into severe depression.
My question is should i give him another chance? This would be the fourth chance im giving him in two years. Or should I ask for a divorce? I protected this marriage for as long as I could. I dont know if it would be foolish for me to give him another chance. Im breaking down everyday! I dont know what would hurt me more, to stay with him or to leave him. I really didnt want my marriage to end. I dont know if i can live without him. But sometimes i think that if I am still hurting after two years together then i feel like its now my fault for that continuous pain because im the one that keeps giving him chances to hurt me. Please me give your sincere advice.
Q: I did niakah with my couisn in 2015 but we never met alone and we never spoke. My father and mother fought because of my father in law. I told them to stop and at that time I loss my mind and I said abusive words to my parents that "you people are dogs, I am giving her divorce divorce divorce, now keep quite. I already gave her 3 divoce so no more fighting otherwise I will do sucide". Then my parents were normal. I said those words unintentionally and I didn't know about the rules of divorce.
Q:
1. Hujjaj are returning. Can I ask a haji at the airport to pray for my job and my son's job? We are both are jobless and facing very tough times.
2. Can I do this practice daily or intermittently?
Q: If a person performs tawaf in the lowest floor around the ka'bah (ie. the sahn floor), it is likely that he will (unintentionally) come in physical contact with women due to the crowd, especially close to the al-hajar al-aswad corner. Will he still be permitted to perform tawaf on this floor (whilst doing his best to avoid contact), or is it wajib for him to perform the tawaf on any of the higher floors where the risk of contact is less?
Q: Is it permissible to study criminal law and become an advocate or prosecutor?
Q: Is it permissible to pursue a career as a state prosecutor?
Q: If someone is ordered to spy on the Muslims to help the disbelievers and he is threatened that if the doesn’t do it he or his family will be killed, will he be out of Islam if he complies?
Q: Is smoking Haraam or is it Makrooh?
Q: My daughter is 30 months old. At the time of sleeping, she does not sleep unless she is breastfed. I tried to make her give up, but all in vain. Kindly advise me if it's still haraam for me to breastfeed her, as it is only at the time of sleeping that she does this.