Performing ghusal on Friday

Q: I wanted to ask regarding a woman having a bath on Friday but not attending the Jumuah Salaah. As far as I know the Friday bath is mustahab for those attending Jumuah Salaah only, but it's commonly thought that women who pray at home should still have a bath on Fridays as it is regarded as a Sunnah. Is this true? Please could you let me know the exact ruling for women.

Leaving one's job in a cargo company

Q: I am working in airport cargo. My company forwards cargo to freighter aircrafts. Some days we handle cargo which is going to American Army Base in Afghanistan which includes Army Vehicles. Most days as a staff I am involved directly in these handling. I have to do documentation and monitor loading. I am thinking of resigning as soon as possible.

Hurmat-e-musaaharah

Q: If a female looks at a male's private part with lust but she did not see his private part directly because the man was wearing a cloth, his body and his private part was covered with a cloth. Is hurmat-e-musaaharah established? Please answer the question. What is the private part and awra for a man?

Giving sadaqah to poor people

Q: I have put a box in my cupboard in which I put the sadaqa amount and when a considerable amount gets together, I give them in charity. I have told my friends about it and they also sometimes contribute in it. The method I adopt regarding charity is that I visit a near by area where mostly poor people live. Then I search for those who are apparently religious as well as needy. The standard of needy that I look at is that one who is apparently really suffering to make both ends meet though he has a fruit stall or an animal like donkey for picking loads for people and carrying them elsewhere. I know that there must be much more needy ones but with this methodology, is my sadqa discharged properly because I think that giving to charity organization may be better but doing so one does not get the real feeling of the poor which one gets by searching them. So I prefer this method.

Wearing bangles

Q: In our Indian culture bangles are a symbol of married women (with alive husband). Is it permissible also in Muslim culture or not? Is it necessary to wear bangles for Muslim woman who are married?