Be wafa showhar

Q: Meri shaadi ko 7yrs ho gaye hai Alhumdulillah do bachhe hai Mere shauhar ne mujhse love marriage kiye the leki shadi ke teen saal baad se unka extra marital affair chalu hai mujhe maalum padne k baad unhone kasam khaye the k usko chhod denge lekin sab k samne wada karne k baad bhi unhone usko nahi chhode hum sab ko yakeen dilaye k chhod diya lekin dubara meine unko uske sath pakdi toh ab kehte hai k mujhe usse shadi karni hai woh meta koi haq ada nahi karte chaar saal se berozgar hai Mei kaam pe jaati hun ghar aur bachhe sab zimmedari mei uthati hun lekin mere shauhar mujhse ladte rehte hai aur mujhe sab k samne aksar zaleel karte hai us ladki ko chhodne ki baat karti hun toh sab k saamne meri galtiyan nikalte hai maarte bhi hai mujhe samjh nahi aata mei kya karun.Meine unko mohabbat se bhi manane ki koshish ki aur gusse se bhi lekin woh usko nahi chhodte.pls bataye mei kya karun woh mujhe talaaq dene bhi tayyar hai Mei bahot aajaz aa gaiee hun meri ammi bhi nhi hai na koi ghar hai na koi mujhe sahara dene wala .kya mei inse talaaq le lun.Meu Allahbse bahot dua karti hun k mera ghar tutne se bach jaye mere shauhar usko chhod de lekin kya pata Allah ko kya manzoor hai

A: Ayse be-wafa khaawind se door rehna hee behtar he. Ulama ki jamiat ke paas jaa karke apne haal bayaan kare. Insha-Allah woh aapki madad karenge.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)