Talaaq ke baare me waswasa

Q: Please read my query and answer me. I am very worried. I am in living in London for the last 5 years. I have 2 daughters. I got married 9 years ago and its been early time my husband made a condition but honestly speaking I dont remember what was that. When did I do, I tried to memorise this but I failed. He said (if you will do or did, you wil be divorced) but what was that, I dont remember. I asked my husband and he said that he even dont remember. Somehow he made a condition and he said that whenever he said that, he always threaten me and still he didnt give (divorce). I am confused and in suspect i dont know when my husband said that time i culdnt pay heed on it but now last 2years i am only trying to recall all past fights that in which what did my husbnd said and his intentions as he said he dont remember but ma wahum o guman mein hon k falan laraiyi Mei kaya kaha tha sara din issi soch mein guzarta ha buht socha (shart) ky bary mein lakin yaad hi nahi aa raha uss sa related batein yaad atti hain lakin wo shart nahi yaad aa rahi ma buht upset hon zahni tur per ma husband ki her baat ko (talq) samjti hon or inn 2salon mein buht laraiyan ho chuki hain ma sirf past ki baton ki yaad kerti hon please guide me ma pagal ho jaon gi

A: Agar yaqeen-e-thuboot ne ho to is qism ke wasaawis aur khiyaalaat ki taraf dhiyaan ne de.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)