Janaazah

Q: Does one have to make niyyah for isaal-e-Thawaab before the action (can intention be made after)?

Q:

1. Where should the gaze/sight be placed when praying Janaazah salah?
2. Why is there no ruku or sajdah in Janaazah salah?

Q: Can a mother and child who passed away together in an accident be buried in one grave?

Q: Just after having buried a mayyit in the graveyard, which direction should we face when making dua for him? Should we face the grave or should we have our backs towards the grave or should we face the qibla? Similarly when making dua for the deceased at the graveyard, which direction should we face?

Q: Can we and should we send isaale thawaab to someone who is a relative that was born disabled needing 24hr care and remained that way until they passed away aged 40? Would they be in need of our isaale thawaab or are they free from sin and hence dwellers of Jannah anyway?

Q: What will be the role of a husband after the death of his wife? Can he give shoulder to the Mayyit?

Q: Is it permissible for a Muslim to attend a thanksgiving service for the deceased person at a church?

Q: A certain persons granny is non muslim and is on her death bed. She would like to know:

1. Can she and her family attend the funreal / service if it is held at a church?
2. Can they attend the function held after the burial which would be at a church? (From what I understand it is a meal with the family)
3. Can her mum accept and use inheritance from her non muslim mum?
4. Also a muslim sister says that she has reseacrhed that niqaab is not fardh for hanafis. Could I please have some information proving that it is fardh?

Q: Is it permissible to read Surah Fatiha at a Muslims grave?

Q:

1. Can we read Quran/Yaseen etc for the people who died so that they will get sawaab and all their sins will be forgiven?
2. Who can read? I mean.. will this be accepted only if sons/daughter read for thier parents? or anyone can read for anyone who died?