Janaazah

Q: Can a mother and child who passed away together in an accident be buried in one grave?

Q: Just after having buried a mayyit in the graveyard, which direction should we face when making dua for him? Should we face the grave or should we have our backs towards the grave or should we face the qibla? Similarly when making dua for the deceased at the graveyard, which direction should we face?

Q: Can we and should we send isaale thawaab to someone who is a relative that was born disabled needing 24hr care and remained that way until they passed away aged 40? Would they be in need of our isaale thawaab or are they free from sin and hence dwellers of Jannah anyway?

Q: What will be the role of a husband after the death of his wife? Can he give shoulder to the Mayyit?

Q: Is it permissible for a Muslim to attend a thanksgiving service for the deceased person at a church?

Q: A certain persons granny is non muslim and is on her death bed. She would like to know:

1. Can she and her family attend the funreal / service if it is held at a church?
2. Can they attend the function held after the burial which would be at a church? (From what I understand it is a meal with the family)
3. Can her mum accept and use inheritance from her non muslim mum?
4. Also a muslim sister says that she has reseacrhed that niqaab is not fardh for hanafis. Could I please have some information proving that it is fardh?

Q: Is it permissible to read Surah Fatiha at a Muslims grave?

Q:

1. Can we read Quran/Yaseen etc for the people who died so that they will get sawaab and all their sins will be forgiven?
2. Who can read? I mean.. will this be accepted only if sons/daughter read for thier parents? or anyone can read for anyone who died?

Q: Is it permissible to donate food to poor people or feed them with the intention of conveying the reward to people who have passed away?

Q: What happens after one dies. After one is questioned is the body dead until the Day of Judgement or is the persons punishment started upon burial. Also is the deceased aware of what's happening in the world after burial. Does the rooh (sprit) of the decease ever visit the world to see what's happening amongst their family and friends?