Janaazah

Q: As muslims we are encouraged to visit the sick and elderly. What about na-mahram elderly people, I am wondering at what age does it become fine to visit a na-mahram person e.g. a 80yr old sick lady.

Q: What is the ruling and procedure in offering Dua inside a Burial Ground. Whether one can offer "Dua" by lifting hands as in normal "Dua" in front of the Grave / in grave yard.

Q:

1. Which shahadat should be given preference for the talqeen of the muhtadar, the first shahadat or the shahadatain.
2. From which side the qabr must be close with the plank for man and woman. The head side or the leg side.
3. In the niyyat of the janazah salaah, is it necessary for the muqtadis say within themselves “behind this imam”.
4. We used to walk in between the qabr with the shoes, I came across the Hadith discouraging to walk with the shoes. What should we do?
5. Can we eat the fruits and take home the flowers of the qabarastan. If not, what should be done especially with the fruits? Let it get rotten on the trees?
6. What the Shariah says about of planting on the qabr, especially after the burial. The flowers most of the time are taken from another qabr. Sometimes we find big big plants on the qabr. Should we keep the qabr completely neat at all times?

Q:

1. Can we wash the thigh of a mayyit (not the extreme private part) directly with the hand (without the gloves)?
2. Is it sunnah to clean the mouth and nose of the mayyit with the left hand while making wudhu?
3. Do I have to start the wudhu for the mayyit by washing the hand first or just by washing the mouth?
4. Do I have to make khilal of the mayyit’s fingers, feets , beard, ears, nape etc?

Q: I would like to ask if it is mentioned about ziyarat of the qabarastan on Friday specificly, most probably in tirmizi.

Q: I would like to know whether the deceased (dead body) still feels any sort of pain if mishandled - intentionally or accidentally. Externally it is seen that it has no soul, no ability to talk, see or express any feelings. Does it mean we can keep the dead body into a freezer (for 1, 2 or even 3 days) so that the relatives (specially sons/daughters, spouse) can arrive from a foreign/distant land to have the last view of the deceased? What is the Shariah Rulings regarding this? Whoever are in charge of all those activities like keeping the dead body into a freezer, delaying the Janaza and burial - will they be regarded as the Sinners and accountable in the eyes of Allah?

Q: Is it necessary to walk with the janaazah for a distance before burial?

Q: 

1. What is the law of using surma, itr on the mayyit?
2. What is hanoot made of?
3. ​Please give us a complete detail about giving ghussal for the mayyit, we are in this field.

Q: Is it permissible for a Muslim to attend the funeral of a non-Muslim?

Q: Is it permissible for the local people to partake of meals prepared at a funeral house?