Advice

Marital problems

Q: I want to ask some wazifa for the success of my marital life because I am much worried nowadays. And I'm living without my husband nowadays. He was giving very tough time to me from after 20 days of marriage. Please tell me some Islamic wazifa that he become mold towards me. 

Feelings from Shaitaan

Q: This may seem like a silly question, but this has seriously been bothering me for a very long time. A few years ago I fell in love with a girl, and then ended up finding out she lives very far away and my chances of marrying her are very slim. But every time I'm finally able to let go of most of my feelings for her, something happens that pulls her back into my heart. I've suffered alot of painful heartbreak in matters regarding her, but sometimes I feel like Allah(Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) is keeping her in my heart because she is meant for me. I've even had alot of dreams about me and her being happy with each other, laughing, and having a good time with our families around us. This makes me think those dreams are glad tidings from Allah(Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) that she is meant for me. Even my friend told me once that he had a dream where he saw me and her together. Can you please tell me what I should do to heal myself from all this, so I can finally be at peace? I find it very hard to forget her unless I'm absolutely sure she's not meant to be mine.

Husband not interested in having children

Q: I want to know about azal in Islam as my husband don't want to have children from marriage up till now, which is 8 years already. He don't want children  for the next 5-6 years and is insisting that I take family planning medicine but I dont want to take it because it is affecting my body badly and I get sick very fast from them. What is the right of the wife in this situation? Should I live with him or separate?

Marital problems

Q: I want to ask you about a good prayer to make my husband good as he is changed after he came to dubai and meeting friends. He keeps telling everything about us to his mom and she never find his mistake. I am from maldives and he is frm india a Christian he is . When we got married he converted to Islam and he was good when we were staying in maldives. But now he met his old friends and always goin to drink and doesn't care about me fights with me leaves me crying and goes out with girls and boys to party. And I am pregnant 2 months now and still he makes me cry always. I am very sad please help me to find a solution and tell me good dua to make him realise those friends are not good and to make him love Islam more.

Husband leaving wife and children

Q: If husband left his wife and kids without any kind of support (deeni and dunyawi) after came back 20 months and still not support. But he wants to meet his wife only for sexual meet and wife refused him bcz the older childs doesnt want to accept again his father to enter home (bcz his badest behaviour with his family) and he came to Canada just to pick them up his mother father and go back home after few months. In this condition if wife refused to sexual contact his husband,so any sin to the wife?