Zikr & Dua

Q: Is it permissible to make the following dua "O Allah, destroy those efforts of getting married between two people in which the roots were of baatil" (e.g. talking over whatsapp, meeting up secretly, etc.)?

Q: Can you read Dua-e-Isme Ilaahi. Is it allowed to ask for help from Allah?

Q: Do you recognize this durood shareef "Allahumma salli ala muhammadiw wa ala ali wa barik wa sallim" can I recite it?, I saw it online. What's the benefits for reciting this durood shareef?

Q: Can you tell me any dua for husband to love me? He is interested in other women and doesn't love me anymore. Please tell me any dua or supplication to increase his love for me.

Q: Please tell me a dua for opening the chest?

Q: Can we make Dua with the Waseela of RasoolAllah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), the Prophets and the Auliya? Some people say that we should ask directly from Allah Ta’ala and not make dua with the Waseela of RasoolAllah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), the Prophets and the Auliya. Please provide reference from the Quran and Sunnah.

Q: Very often I remember a friend or relative. What short concise dua can I read for their blessings? 

Q: Should we recite aayatal kursi before sleeping and clap 3 times?

Q:

1. What's the intention of reciting Allahu Akbar and talbiya? Many times in salah and in other dua's though we do agree the greatness with the heart.

2. What are the wordings of Rasoolullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) when reciting darood? Is it same what we use to recite in salah and other daroods? When Rasoolullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) is reciting and sending darood and salam on himself, so the wording may change right? Please clarify.

3. What are the wordings that are used by Allah and Angels when sending darood to Rasoolullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam). Can we repeat the same when we are sending?

Q: Is there a hadith linked to reciting zikr by using the fingers to count so that it will be the noor on the day of judgement and/or inside the darkness of the grave?