Q: A Muslim guy approached me and proposed marriage. I explained it to my parents and they asked me to invite him to the house, he told his father but his dad rejected me saying he wants his son to marry a daughter of his friend or else he will disown him. Will I break relation or I pray to Allah to have the guy back or what should I do? I am really confused.
Q: I would like to know, I am separated from my elder daughter's mother, and my daughter lives with the mother. My daughter made nikaah a few days ago, and she used consent from her mother's current husband, although I maintained her all through the years, but when she graduated from university, and started working, she distanced herself from me. There was a proposal for her, which I was informed about, but as time passed, approvals, wedding dates were set by her mother, without consulting me. Subsequently the nikaah happened last Saturday. I was not informed by either her or her mother about the date. I would like to know is it permissible for her to use her mother's current husband as a person to give consent for the nikaah?
Q: I have a question and I am so confused. I want to marry a guy but the problem is I don't want to tell my family about this nikaah because my father is not a Muslim. So should I marry him with telling my parents? This nikaah will be valid or not?
Q: Agar larka or larki nikaah ki niyyat se teen janne wale aqilo baligh logo ke samne unhe nikah ki niyat batae bagair bato bato men nikah karen or kahen ke (larka puche k 'tumhe is mehar ke sath nikah qubool he?' Or larki 'han' kahe aese hi 3 se 4 bar kahen or un aqilo baligh logo ko mutawajja krte batae ke larki ko nikah qubool he or unhe mutawajja krte hue larka ijab kare or larki qubool kare to kya wo nikah hojaega? Or wo teen log nikah ki niyat na jante hue bator gawah shamil hojaenge? Please jawab zurur dijiega.
Q: Mera ek or sawal ye hy k me Afghani hn or me ek Pakistani larke se boht pyar karti hn taqreeban 4 ya 5 salo se or us k Ghar wale raazi hy lakin mere Ghar wale Ab razi nhi hy srf es waja se k WO Pakistani hy na k Afghani jb k WO n us k walid mere walid se mil chuke hy or unko zuban b di thi bt lakin mere walid hm se kuch or kehte hy means k nhi maan rahe or munkir hy apni zuban se BT massla ye hy k unko kuch nhi bolte means larke k walid call b karte hy to receive nhi karte na hi unko inkaar karte hy BT hmare Ghar me boht massla create karte hy mujse baat nhi karte bad dua dete hu meri ammi ko Dante hy etc or hm 6 behane or 2 bhai hy mera num 4 hy or ek Behan ki shadi hogai hy meri ammi n Mamu log raazi hy larke ko dekho chuke hu BT meri behane phele kehti thi k AGR larka hmare rewaaj pore karega n izzat se shadi karega to hume koi prob nhi hy or larka SB kuch maan raha hy har chez k liye raazi hu uski family b kuch nhi bol rahi BT Ab mere walid or 4 bahne apni bato se palat gaye hu or kuch dino se Ghar ka mahol kharab kar rakha hu muje baat baat pe sunate hy taane dete hu or muje baat tk band kardi hy or meri ammi se bola hu k apni beti se kaho k ek ko intikhaab kare matlb k ya larke ko chose kar k chali jaye n kbi b dobara wapis yahan na aye yaani hmsha hmesha k liye rishta khatam karde warna larke ko bhool jaue mera massla ye hy k me dono me se koi rasta nhi le sakti or meri halat boht buri hy dil me kharab batain ati hy koi rasta nazar nhi ata dil chahta hu k khudkhushi karlon BT ammi mere sath hy WO b boht pareshaan hy mere liye meri family kehti hu ammi se k us larke ko bula kar chup kar eska nikkah kar k bhejdo or kbi wapis na aaye BT meri ammi kehti hy k es me ruswayi hy coz meri srf ek Behan ki shadi huwi hu n do behane mujse bari bethi huwi hy engage b nhi hy TBI ye to boht sharam ki baad hy k do bari behne Ghar pe hy or 4 ki shadi kardon wo b chip kar or mere liye b darti hy k aage ki zindagi me muje taane milenge or shadi k baad mera koi maika nhi hoga Me jis se pyar karti hn usne aj tk boht help ki abbu ki n thori boht family ki or aj tk srf izat se SB karna chahta hu tbi meri ammi ne mujse wada kia hy k WO har haal me hmari shadi karwayengi BT baqi SB hmare khilaaf hy or kuch b samj nhi araha k kia kare me wazifa b karti hn or boht dua b k hmari shadi izzat k sath hojaye BT SB kuch bigar gaya hy boht ajeeb si halat hy meri ammi n Ghar ki TBI ap se guzarish hy k kuch rehnumayi kare or koi tareeqa ya wazifa waghera bataye muje ta k mera massla khair k sath hal hojaye.
Q: I did istakara for my son. The girl he wants to marry my heart feel ok but the other day I dont know if I was dreaming or just laying down to sleep but it all of a sudden came to my head that it is delaying because she hasn't told her parents.
Q: Mainy shadi ka istkhara kia tha mry 2 rishtyn hain jin mai sy mai ekh ko pasand krti hun k 1din pani ki saff nehery or mai pather pr bethi hun or asman sy roshni ati hai or khti hai faisla logi 2din dekhti hun k jisko mai nai chahti usko k wo mry ghar aker shetano ko baher nikal raha hai phr tesry din dekha k wo jisko mai chahti hun usko mai milny jati hun tu koi ajeeb se urat mra khoon chooss lyti hai please guide me.
Q: Is orange and white colour good or not. If seen in istakhara dream I did it for my marriage. Ek mera cousin tha jis ney orange shirt pehne the, aur wo meri baat nahe sun raha hota khwaab main aur mein bohot pareshan hoti hn (asal zindagi main meri engagement hoe the Meray cousin sey aur wo khtm hogaye) Aur ek aur larkay ko dekha tha Maine apnay khwab main us se meri shadi hoe hoti hai aur us ney orange aur White check shirt pehne hoti hai...tu Kia Orange aur White ka combination colour ka acha hai? Agar ab wo dosra rishta aye tu wo thek hoga? Matlb Mera srf itna hai pochnay ka Kia orange aur White ka combination agar iskhtara my Kay khwab main dekha jae tu wo acha hota hai?
Q: I like a boy a lot. He is the same as I want my husband to be. Its almost a year but I haven't yet talked to him. I do sabar and wait for Allah's will. Toady I saw him in dream that I am hugging him and saying thank you to him.
Q: There is a man who is in love with me but he is married with 3 kids. He does not want to tell his wife about us because he says it will be problem. But he loves me and wants to make nikaah with me. What should I do? Please advise.