consulting parents

Nikaah ke maamle me larki apne maa baap ke saat mashwarah karna

8 years ago By admin

Q: Mai jisse pyr krti hu wo shadi shuda hai or Hm dono nikah krna chahte the. Pr ab wo piche ht gaya. Maine bhi y sochkar contact kam kr dia ki namahram hai bs Allah se dua krti hu ki hmra nikah ho jye uske liye istikhara Kia ki mera intezar krna sahi hai ya nahi. khwab ye hai jo teen din dekha

1.Maine khwab me dekha ki mai hawai jahaz me baithi hu to sbko utar dia ki isme blast hone wala hai bs 5 ya 6 log hai.unme ek ladka hai jo meri umr ka hai or usne kale rang ki shirt phni hai agey seat p hi islye face nhi dekha.mai khti hu ki ap log b utar jayo to wo khta hai ki sath jiye nhi to kya marege sath. To unko nachane k liye mai gate p ati hu to dkhte hu ki mai train k gate p hu or wo road p chal rhe hai jaise hi uski speed kam hoti hai mai utar jati hu or sadak se niche sukhe khet m pahuch jati hu.or manzar badal jata hai dekhti hu ki mai ek bade se ghar m hu kitchen m meri bhatiji hai phir mai ghar k bahar lawn m akr baith jati hu palang p na khush hu na udas bs Mann m y bat ki mai uska intezar krugi. Phir manzar badal jata hai dekhti hu ki mai class room m hu or parcha dekh k pareshan hu ki iske jawab nhi ati phir ek ladka jo meri bahen ka class mate meri help krta hai or mai parcha hal krti hu or khti hu passing marks ml jyge.

2.mai bus se apne school ja rhe hu meri dahine taraf kaale naqab m ek buzurg aurat baithi hai or khti hai mjhe rasoolpur jana Hai. Mai bahar dekhti hu bhare kheto k par rasoolpur dikhta hai to mai unse khti hu ki apki manzil a gye or samne wali seat p ek ladka ulti kr raha hai. Phir dkhte hu ki ek buzurg admi kaale libas me hai or wo uski bv se phone p meri bat krwate hai phone p wo mjhe bura kehti hai or mjhe pata chalta hai ki wo apni bv ko marta hai.

3.mai apne school jati hu jaha mai padhati hu.gate p pahuchte hu to principal or do clerks ko dekhti hu. Or bache rang birange kapdo m school me khel rahe hai.mai khte hu ki inki to chhutti hai. Phir apne libas ko dekhti hu ki bahot purana hai or ander nhi jati bs gate p colleague ko apne documents de dti hu ki ander le jye or mai wapas taxi stand p akar white colour k taxi m baith jati hu. Plz iski tabeer bataye.

Consulting parents with regards to nikaah

8 years ago By admin

Q: Me and the person I want to marry did Istikhara for ourselves. Each of us did it thrice. My dreams were as follows: 1. I was in a house looking for some clothes. I look out of the window and it's a green land with huge trees and I see my brother coming towards me in white. 2. I saw myself walking on snow. 3. I saw the lawn of my house.

His dreams were as follows:

1. Someone rings the bell at night and his mom says not to go out, he does and there is no one.

2. He is in a plane and the air hostess are wearing maroon uniform.

3. He is standing outside a house and someone is throwing pebbles at him. He goes up to the roof and there is no one. Can you please tell the interpretations of the dreams?

Girl consulting her parents with regards to nikaah

8 years ago By admin

Q: Girl's choice in marriage is final though violating other family and status equality as given in fiqh of marriage. Allah orders children not to cause grievous hurt to the heart of parents. Allah says, he does not delay punishment to such children in this very world. So how can such marriages be happy? Is not the marriage with the approval of both the girl and her parents more meritorious and rewarding? And are parents entitled to say to the girl that if she's bent upon her own choice, she should do it without parents taking any part in it as they aren't accepting her choice?

Listening to one's parents

8 years ago By admin

Q: I am in love with a girl and want to marry her. I told my parents to ask for her hand but they are not agreeing as they have heard that the girl does not have good character. But after meeting the girl I am more attracted to my religious obligations. Please guide me what to do.

Consulting one's parents and family elders with regards to nikaah

8 years ago By admin

Q: I want to ask about istakhara. I will do it according to the Sunnah method. I want to know about my marriage. I want to know about love marriage and is that guy good for my life or not? Can you tell me what sign I will get in the dream? Second if I get a negative answer, can I do istakhara again? If again negative, can I do it again and if third time I get it positive should I marry that person?

Consulting one's parents in regard to nikaah

8 years ago By admin

Q: I have read istikaarah namaaz regarding marrying a boy I am intetested in. The first night I read, I had a confused dream. The second night that I read, I dreamt that the boy had passed away as well as two other females. A Moulana read the janaazah for the one female and she was his wife. If I remember correctly the second female was his daughter. He read a separate salaah for each. He was then supposed to read the janaazah salaah for the boy I'm interested in but he told me he cannot read it and he refused and I think he apologised. Thereafter the grave of the boy was moved, it was as though the entire grave was relocated to another location but it was not a graveyard and I remember the moulana tapping the top sand of the grave. The place where the graves of the other two females were also not in a graveyard. Please tell me what this means.

Does a boy require his parents permission if he has a need to get married?

8 years ago By admin

Q: I am B.Tech qualified student doing M.Tech. My uncle is repeatedly saying to continue M.Tech and pursue Ph.D and become assistant professor which will require at least 4 years. I am already 25 years old and want to earn as soon as possible as I feel I should get married since 2-3 years. But I feel shy to talk on this matter with my parents. I want to do a job but uncle insists that teaching will be better for me (by observing my weak physical condition due to black magic). Completing higher studies will require 4 years and I will be reaching 29 years till I complete Ph.D become assistant professor. Due to sexual temptations and to prevent myself from sins, I want to do nikaah, but my uncle and father is of the view that I should continue studies. What should I do? During 2-3 years, I had indulged in pornography and masturbation due to temptations. If I continue to study for 4 years, there is danger of getting involved myself in porn and adultery and I don't want to do it. What should I do in the light of Quran and Hadith? How should I inform them about this and convince them. Also I am confused as to what source of income will be better for me job or teaching? (Teaching is better if whole life is concerned except four years and government job is better if entire life is concerned)

Boy marrying a girl without his parents consent

8 years ago By admin

Q: A boy married a older girl without the consent of his parents in the presence of two male witnesses. Now if he wishes to tell his parents about it and they ask him to divorce the girl, will that be correct? Just because they against him marrying someone older and a few people in the family have spoken ill of the girl thus making his parents believe she isn't a good girl. Does he have to follow his parents and divorce the girl or should he remain married?

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