Naseehat

Shaadi se pehle baate karna

Q: Mai ye janna chahata hu ke ye jo asraat baali baat hoti hai kya wo sahi hai. ek ajeeb waqiya mere sath kai saal se ho raha hai. jis ladki se meri shadi hone wali hai wo mujhse phone pe baat karti mai kyuke wo mere mama ki beti hai uske upar koi asar hota hai jab bhi wo kabhi raat m 12 baje call karti hai to uske upar jo aati h wo hi baat karti hai meri mama ki beti ko pata bhi nhi chalta ke usne mujhse baat ki hai aur na hi uske mobile m koi call details hoti aur ajeeb baat ye h ke bettery bhi down nhi hoti. phle to wo theek se se baat nhi karti baad m karne lagti hai aur jo bhi wo baat batati h mere future se relative wo sahi ho jaati h meri shadi insahallah jaldi hone wali h mujhe aap kuch raye de ke ye kya maamla hai last jab meri usse baat hui to maine usse pucha ke ager tum mere shadi ke baad bhi aa gayi to meri bibi ko koi problem to nhi hoga wo boli kuch nhi hoga. aisa kyu ho raha please mujhe bataye kyu ke mai sirf Allah se mangta hu sabkuch aur apni jindagi jydahtar deen pe gujarna chahta hu mujhe iski baato pe bleave nhi ho raha kya h ye maajra.

Larka ki wajah se becheni

Q: Me bohot preshan hu islie bs chahti hu mujhe Allah Tala us preshani se nikalne ka rasta dikha de. Past me jo b galtiya ki unke lie scchi or pakki tauba b krli me ek deeniyat course se b judi hui hu koshish krti hu khud ko namaz ibadat or zikar me masroof rkhu is sbse Allah ne mjhe bohot sukun dia lekin aaj b jb b mjhe wo ladka nazar aa jata he chahe mahino k baad ho to dubara dil bechen ho jata he me astaghfar b pdti hu lekin tb sukun chla jata he jbki mene us ladke se hr rishta khatam kr dia koi zariya b nai he bs use dekhte hi dil me khyal ata he usne kese mjhe dhoka dia beizzat kia or aaj b khush o khurram ghum raha he mujhe samajh nai ata ye shaitan ki traf se waswsa he ya kya he Me kya kru ab ki is becheni se b bch jao kyoki esa lgta he ki me Allah pe ykin krke sb chod chuki ki wo hi insaf krega to me udas hu or wo khush jise dr b nai lga sb krke

Waalidayn se mashwara karna nikaah ke baare me

Q: Mujhy ik masla baayan karna tha, masla meri shadi ka ha, ik larky k sath meri razamandi, meri khawsih b ha k meri us sy shadi ho, or us ki taraf b yhi mamla ha, us k ghar waly raazi hain, ab masla yh ha koi rasta nazar nai araha k kis tarah apny ghar walo us k bary m batao k wo rishta lana chahta ha, yh koi esa zariya paida ho jis s asani ho, meri rehnumai karein bhot zada pereshan ho, Allah n chah tu ghar waly raazi hojayn gy, lkn koi zariya paida ho jis s wo rishta ly k asky ghar tk, Allah ka shukar ha meri yh soch nai ha k khuda na khausta maa baap k khilaf ja k shadi karo us s, maa baap ki raza mandi s hi shadi karna chahti ho lkn koi rasta smjh nai araha, mujhy in sb kamo ki asani k lye koi wazifa bta dein.

Studies me peeche hona

Q: Mera sawal yeh hai ek mai engineering course mai hoo jaisa maineh Islamic field mai ziyada tawajju de rahaa hoo toh maineh 2 saal mai dekah hai ki mai mera studies mai picheeh hojarahaa hooo.  Mai Alhamdulilah 5 times ki saath nafil namaz bhi aur daily 1000 martaba durud e Pak. Thoo mai kiyaa karoooh samajnhe nahi araa. Madad ki kijeh please.

Ghar ke haalaat saheeh karne ka tareeqah

Q: Meri halat bahut kharab hai mere abu bahut bade zalim hai zulm kerte hai choti choti baat pe gussa kerte hai dil dhukate hai hume bahut kaid kiya howa hai hum sisters aur mom ko koi azaadi nahi hai bes ghar me kaid hai zulm ki zindagi hai humari duniya ke saare girls season humari zindagi alag hai bahut boring halloween hai humari please Allah ke waaste ek wazifa kuch to dejiye ki Allah abu ko hamesha ke liye hidayat de aam insane bane hum pe zulm nahi kare gussa bhi nahi kare humari marzi se chale.