Naseehat

Homosexuality

Q: Me 28 saal ka lark hoon. Mera sawal hai my koi bhi khubsoorat ladke ko dekh thaa hoon thoo aisa lagtha hai ki my oos se baat karoon miloon dosti karoon. Aur oosko mohabat maroon. Mujhe patha nhai my bhi ek ladka hoon. Tho my a poochna chatha hoon ki kya Islam me ya din me ladka aur ladka chahane lage ya mohabat ki baaten Karen tho jayaz hai. Pata nahi mujhe kya hota hai jab bhi ladke ko dekhtha hoon thoo diwana hojatha hoon its like called as a gay in english. Me aap se request karoonga pls mujhe iske lye koi oopaye batai aa. My kya karoon. Mujhe kuch bhi samaj nahi arha hai.

Shaadi me pareshaani

Q: Aapse guzaris hai ke mera ek masla hai aur iski wajah se main abhi bahot taklif main hu.Mufti sahab main 1 ladki se pyar karta tha. wo ladki hindu (cast-mochi) thi. hum 9 years se ek dusre ke sath the. jab muje laga ki iss ladki ke sath meri jindagi achhi tarah se basar hogi to maine usse shadi ke liye pucha aur usse bol diya ke agar shadi karni ho to tumhe islam kabul karna padega, Namaj, Roza, Quraan ki tilawat sab karna padega aur wo ladki razi ho gai islam kabool karne ke liye. Iske liye maine use 1 saal ka waqt diya tha acchi tarah sochne ke liye fir bhi usne Ha bola aur wo islaam qabool karke sab kuch karne ko taiyaar ho gai. fir maine apne ammi ko bola aur ammi ne mere mamu se baat ki. mere maamu us ladki ko milne aaye aur apne islam main aur ghar ke mahol se rubaru karvaya aur ladki ne sab baat ko qabool kiya. maine us ladki ka photo apne gharwalo ko dikhaya tha aur mere ammi aur abbu uske sath phone par baat bhi karte the. mere gharwalo ke kehne se maine usse court main shadi kar li kyuki koi jagada na ho aur agar ho to marriage certificate sab ko dikhane ke liye. fir maamu ke ghar ja kar nikkah padhna baki tha. jab nikkah ke liye jana tha uske 4 roj pehle wo ladki hamare ghar aayi aur mere abbu ne usse dekhi. dekh kar tabhi bol diya ke ye ladki ki body thik nahi hai. tu divorce le. aur kaha ki ye ladki hindu main mochi cast ki hai to iske sath nikkah nahi ho sakta. maine apne gharwalo ko bahot samjaya par wo Na mane aur hamare divorce karva diye. Muje bola gaya ke ye ladki islaam qabool nahi kar sakti aisa hamare nabi aap S.A.W ne farmaya hai. iski namaj bhi qabool nahi hogi. to kya ye bat sahi hai? hindu main mochi cast ki ladki agar Islaam qabool karne ko taiyar hai to wo chah kar bhi qabool nahi kar sakti? bas ladki ko dekh kar bol diya ke ye in future main baccha bhi paida nahi kar sakegi kyuki ladki thodi dubali patli thi. muje bataya gaya tha ki koi non-muslim islaam qabool kare to wo musalmaan ho jata hai fir wo kaun tha wo nahi dekha jata. ab mere gharwale meri mangani kahi aur karva ne ki baat kar rahe hai par mera dil gawara nahi karta hai. agar maine mangani ya shadi kari to bhi main sacche dil se us ladki ko nahi apna sakunga. main kya karu? muje kuch samaj nahi aa raha hai. mere gharwalo ne jo kiya wo sahi tha? wo ladki islaam qabool nahi kar sakti thi? muje talaak nahi lena tha fir bhi majburi main muje talak lena pada. aur ab majburan kisi aur ladki ke sath mangani karni pad rahi hai. aap se guzarish hai aap jald se jald muje jawab dijiyega.

Haraam talluq se tawbah

Q: Mera ap say aik sawal ha jo mjha andar he andar khay jaa raha h umeed hai k ap meri madad karain gay. Meri umer 18 saal hai me aik larki say pyar krta hu. Pehly wo b krti thi pr bd me krna chor diya .. mera usky bagair guzara mushkil ho gaya Or mene internet pr ik jadugar ko msg kiya or usay apna masla bataya ... phr usny kaha k 3 din bad wo larki apsy contact kray gi me usky dil me muhabbat daal dun ga .. mene kaha k theak h .. phr usi raat mjha andaza hua k ye sb jo me kr raha hu ye sb galag h or mene usay agli he subah call kr k kah diya k ap na karain sb usny pahly kaha k amal shuru ho gaya h Bd me kahta k mene rok diya h ... or usny kahak amal nahi hua ... phr mne 1 din bd usay phir call ki or pucha k amal hua tha k nahi to usny kaha k amal nahi hua .. !! Mene Allah say tuaba b kr li h .. bs sir mjha itna bta dain k mjha iska gunnah to nahi milau ga .. Allah mjha muaf kr day ga ? Kia mjha us larki say b muafi mangni ho gi ?

Maa baap se alag rehna

Q: Mery sath aik masla ha pleas meri help ferma dijye meri wife or meri maa bap sath rehty hn un ki apes me aik dosry sy ni banti me kafi koshish kr chuka hu ab me apni wife ko alg ghr me rekhna chahta hu but mery maa bap ni man rhy pleas mjy btaye k aysi halat me mujy kia faisla krna chaye Islam me. Allah ne iss bary me kia fermaya ha or aysi halat me kia krna chaye mjy?

Jab gunnah saamnay aata hai to teacher ko yaad kar ke gunnah chor dena

Q: Mere aik teacher hain jin se mein ne bhoat Islam seekha hai. Unn teacher ke mein bhoat respect krta hon aur har baat manta hon. Teacher ne mujhe gunnah na krne ke nassehat ke the. Ab jab gunnah mere samnay aata hai tu mein teacher ko yaad kr ke gunnah chor deta hon.Gunnah ka chorna sirf ALLAH PAAK ke raza ke lye hai lekin teacher ko yaad kr ke. Agar kabhi teacher ka khayal na rahey to gunnah ho jata hai. Aap mere rehnumai kegyey. Kia mera ye amal theek hai?

Baat karne me ihtiyaat karna

س: کیا فرماتے ہیں علماء دین و مفتیان شرعمتین مسلے ذیل میں زید ایک جماعت(جماعت الدعوہ ) کے سربراہ ہے اور اس جماعت پر دہشت گرد ہونے کی وجہ سے اس کے سربراہ کے سر پر امریکہ نے 10 لاکھ امریکی ڈالر انعام رکھا ہے ۔ اس انعام پر زید بیان دیتا ہے کہ " امریکہ نے میرے سر کی قیمت لگائی مجھے خوشی ہے نبی صل اللہ علیہ و سلم کے سر کی قیمت لگی میں اسی نبی کا پیروکار ہوں- حافظ سعید " کیا کسی مسلمان کو ایسا بیان دینے کی اجازت ہے؟ اور زید کے اس بیان پر شریعت محمدی کا کیا حکم ہے؟

Shaadi se pehle kisi ajnabi se ta'alluq rakhna

Q: Mai yek ajeeb rishta se pareshaan hu. mujhe yek ladka se mohabbat hua. lekin woh ladka kisi aur se mohabbat karta hai. woh ladka jisko mohabbat karraha hai woh ladki ko kisi aur se nikah hogaya.Afsos ki baat , woh ladka dard se guzara.Phir unk gharwalon woh ladka ko goa bhejdiya, kyunki woh thoda dard ko bhuljaye. Astagfirullah woh ladka goa may yek angrez ladki se raat bitaya aur khudko azaab may daldiya. yeh baat usko nahi pata ki mai jaantihu. mai bhi kabhi nahi bola kisiko ..kyunki mai usay azaabse bachana chahti hu..phirbhi woh mujhe pasand nahi karta...mai usay mera pyaar izhaar kar diya..mai allah se bharosa rakh kar woh ladka ka intezhaar karti hu aur karoongi, inshallah. Ab mera Sawaal yeh hai ki ...kya mai jo bhi karrahi hu ....woh sahi hai ? Appko kya lagta ki woh ladka mera mohabbat samaj karlega?

Haraam taalluq

Q: Mera sawaal yeh he Main nay hamesha har chez main Nafs ko tarjeh di Main kehta tha mujhy Allah say aur Nabi Pak Saww say bht pyar ha lekin os main ikhlas nahi tha phir ek Aurat meri zindagi main aein jin kay tufail meri mohabbat main ikhlas agia aur en aurat say mera koi taluq nahi ha agar aj wo meray dil main hain tou Allah ki waja say main es aurat ko ley kar Paak sochta hon main nay enko propose kia enho nay accept kia proposal hum nay ghar bhe bat ki meri family man gai but on ki ami nahi mani. Ab asal main bat yeh ha main on say 10 saal age main chota hon aur meri study ka masla ha onko lagta tha main mbbs student hon halankey main next year start karunga Plz koi wazifa bataen koi dua bataen jin say onkay ghar waley man jaen Naseeb Allah banatey hain magar main chahta hon wo meray naseeb main hon dua bhe karta hon Main pori zindagi on kay liye rona nahi chahta Plz help me regarding this matter kukay main onko dil say nahi nikal pa raha dekhien meri soch na paak nahi ha plz koi wazifa advice dien mujhy main kia karun ab?

Musht zani

Q: Mera sawaal ye he ke agar ayk shaadi shuda mard jis ki bewi berone mulk ha  owr bewi say hambistri keay hoeay kafi arsa ho jata ha. To easi surat main mani per control nahin reata owr aksar kapray kharab ho jatey hain jis ki waja say namaaz ka nuqsan ho jata ha owr ghusal bhi karna parta ha. Kya easi surat main jab shawat ka ghalba ho to kya aadmi musht zani kar sakta ha kuonka easa karnay say 5 say 7 din aasani say nikal jatey hain. Janab is amal ka kafara bhi bata dain. I hope you understand my question. Please reply.