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Q: Wasawis aur bure khayalat se bachne ke liye kya karna chahiye aise wasawis se bahut fikar aur khouf mehsus hota he is ko dur karne ke liye kya karna chahiye.

Q: Main ye janna chahta hu ke ek larka ek larki apni marzi se bagair wali ke nikah krsakte hai pr hamare nabi ki hadees hai jisne bagair wali ke nikah kia uska nikah batil hai or agr maulana se pucho toh wo kehte hai ke ye hadees nabaligh ke liye hai main ye janna chahta hu ki ispe kese yaqeen kiya jaye ki ye hadees nabaligh ke liye hai mera matlab koi hadees ho iski ya kuch or jawab zarur dijiyega.

Q: Mujhe four year se piyaar he aur wo mjhse bat keta tha wo hafiz he but wo mjhse kabhi direct nahi btata kya he uske dil me hum dono mile nahi h bus msg pr bat hoti thi aur dono qureshi ap mjhe koi wazfa bataiye jisse wo mjhse clear btaiye i want to marry him and he was said that mjhe hafze me bht wakt lagaiga but mei intezar karne ko ready ho mufti sahab kya koi aisa wazifa he jisse uski side se rishta ajai.

Q: Mera mufti sahib se ye sawal ha ke ager mard kisi bhi sorat talaq nahi deta na he khula pe razi hota ha to orat kya kary?

Q: Iman ke khilaf wasawis aate hai aur nafs kabu main nahin hain.

Q: Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche pda tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid karti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha uska kad chota he mene use ummid di tm koshish krti raho wo maan jaegi usne dil jaan se koshish ki mujhse jb b nikah ki zid krti ki gunah se bch jaege me taal deta tha wo mujhe smjhati b thi ki ye gunah he me hi tb use mjbur kr deta tha wo kbi room dating k lie nai mani magar tb b hm kafi close the isi bich mera kisi or ladki se b rishta bn gya mene use ye btaya b nai ki ab meri life me koi or b he use choda b nai na mere kehne pe mere ghar walo ne use btaya meri ammi b uske ghar bs rishta le gai thi pkka nai kia tha mene use ummide di ek din ammi man jaegi wo isi umid me ji rai thi jb use sach ka pta lga to wo bohot roi ki tm ya tmhare ghar wale bta to dete us ladki se rishta b pkka kr dia mujhe b jhuti ummide di ye tmne dhoka kia he zulm kia mere sath me b mjbur hu dusri ladki se rishta pkka ho gya dusri wali ko chod nai skta na wo ladki chodne degi ghar wale b dusri ko apna chuke Islie mene use mana kr dia mene mere ghar walo ne usse baat tk bnd krdi ab wo msg krti rehti he ki tmhe allah saza dega meri izzat mujhe wapas nai milegi lekin usne b sbko bta k meri b to izzat nilam ki baad me usne is galti ki mujhse mafi magi mene keh dia tmhe mafi nai sza milegi Kya wo sach kehti h ki ye mene zulm kia kya mene galat kia he.

Q: Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche para tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid krti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha uska kad chota he mene use ummid di tm koshish krti raho wo maan jaegi usne dil jaan se koshish ki mujhse jab b nikah ki zid krti ki gunah se bch jaege me taal deta tha wo mujhe smjhati bhi thi ki ye gunah he me hi tb use mjbur kr deta tha wo kbi room dating k lie nai mani magar tb b hm kafi close the isi bich mera kisi or ladki se b rishta bn gya mene use ye btaya b nai ki ab meri life me koi or b he use choda b nai na mere kehne pe mere ghar walo ne use btaya meri ammi b uske ghar bs rishta le gai thi pkka nai kia tha mene use ummide di ek din ammi man jaegi wo isi umid me ji rai thi jb use sach ka pta lga to wo bohot roi ki tm ya tmhare ghar wale bta to dete us ladki se rishta b pkka kr dia mujhe b jhuti ummide di ye tmne dhoka kia he zulm kia mere sath me b mjbur hu dusri ladki se rishta pkka ho gya dusri wali ko chod nai skta na wo ladki chodne degi ghar wale b dusri ko apna chuke Islie mene use mana kr dia mene mere ghar walo ne usse baat tk bnd krdi ab wo msg krti rehti he ki tmhe allah saza dega meri izzat mujhe wapas nai milegi lekin usne b sbko bta k meri b to izzat nilam ki baad me usne is galti ki mujhse mafi magi mene keh dia tmhe mafi nai sza milegi Kya wo sach kehti h ki ye mene zulm kia kya mene galat kia he.

Q: Me kaafi preshan hun. Mri shdi ko du saak hugy hyb aur bht se masly hyn mn abhi Pakistan se bhir hun. Yahn any pr pth chla k mry shoher beer petay hyn mry mna krny pr b nhy sunty. Mri ami ny istekhra kerwaya tu wu bilqul b thk nhy aya khuwab mn kalay sitah mountain dekhy .ab mn pregnant b hun two month se.istekhra thk na any pr mry ghr waky chty hyb k mn abortion kerwa lun aur divorce ly lun q k na ty mry husband ka bhvr thk hy aur na hi inlaws ka du saal mn mjhy her trhn ki parwshani aur tangi dekhni pri ... bare karm btyea ke mn kia krun ab jb kr istekhra b thk nhy aya tu kia abortion aur divorce thk fiasala huga mry lia? Plz mjhy guide krein.

Q: Mayra sawal ye hai ke bachpan se main koi bhi kaam karna chaho ya kisi cheez ki chahat karo tu hota nahi hai hai agar koi cheez mujhy mill bhi jaiy to bari hi ruswai ya takleef ke sath milti hai. May samjhti ho ke mere naammujhpe suit nahi karta. Kya may isey change kar sakti ho? Yani koi or naam rakh sakti ho? Is ke ilawa mujhy koi wazifa batain jo may namaz ke sath ada karo jo mere haq may behter ho?

Q: Mera sawal ye hai ke mai jis ladke se mohabt karti hu wo shadi shuda hai uski bv ne phle hm dono ko permission di thi shadi ki pr bad m mukar gye to wo b badal gya hmre bich kbhi koi galat rishta nhi raha yaha tk ki kaye kaye saal baat tk nhi ki. Ab mai usse nikah karna chahte hu pr wo tyar nhi to kya mai usse nikah ke liye wazifa ya salat ul haajat padh ke Allah se uske sath nikah ki dua kar skti hu ye gunah to nahi?