Naseehat

Q: Allah maaf farmaye peechle or mojooda gunahon ke liye. Mujhy aapse ye question poochna he ky, agar koi larki larky se saccha pyaar karti hai, or larka bhi. Woh log parent's ki marzi shamil kar ky nikah karna chahty hain. Magar parent's ki la-parwahi ki wajah se woh sex commit karlyty hain many times or jiski wajah se larki pregnant hojati he. Magar unko pata nhi hota or galti se period's pills ly lyti h jis se bacha abort hojaata he or baad me pata chalta hai. To kya un per gunah hoga uss bacchy ku abort hony ka? To larki ye baat bataati hai, larky ky ghar waalo ko or apny bhi. Magar, larky ke ghar waaly shadhi se manah kar dyty hain or larki ki baat per yaqeen nahi karty owr larki ab kisi owr larkay ko woh sab biwi ke haqooq, raat ke haqooq nahi poory kar sakti or woh ussi larkay se shadhi karna chahti hai jis se woh committed rae he. Magar larka deceive karta he larki ko tow kya larki istikhara nikah ke liye, ya phirr parent's ko man'naany ke liye nikah ke liye wazifa parrh sakti hai. Qu ke larki ka maqsad sirf, yhi h ky wohh in gunah se tauba kar ky eik acchi larki ban'ny or uss larky se nikah kar ky sab haqooq poory kary.

Q: Meri walida jo hain namaaz ki paband hai owr ham sab betiyan bhi namz ke paband hai. Bas bete jo hain namz nahi parthey. Do beton ki shadi ho chuki hai tesra beta jo abhi 23 saal ka hai aqal wa shaor bilkul b nahi hai koi kam b nahi karta bas shadi ka bhoot sar par swar hai r bar bar tang karta hai k mujhey shadi karni hai meri walida ko pareshan karta hai apni baton se jis se wo chirchiri ho gai hai r tension leti hai r bare dono bete b apni pasand r marzi k mutabiq shadi ki hai ab pachta rahe hain unke wives bad ekhlaq r namz nahi parthey r bachey b bilkul apni trah bad eklaq r la shaor hain jab unhe koi masla dar pesh ata hai to meri walida ko tang karte hai r apna masla bayan kr k meri walida ko pareshan rakhey hain r meri walida ko wo ezzat nahi dete jo aik maa ka haq hai meri walida usi ghar main hote howe b meri walida ko nahi pochtey jab apna kuch masla hota apne mafad k liye maa ko pochety hain r tesra beta ab unhi ki tra shadi k liye zid kar raha hai r aqal bilkul b hai nahi samjhatey hain to kehta hai mujey samajh hai apne ache r burey ka esa wazefa bataen jis se wo aik farmabardar beta ho r aik deendar ba adab larki se shadi karne par razi ho jazak allah fi Amanillah.

Q: Mufi Saheb as my marriage is nearer I am in a tension because Mufi saheb someone when I was small not baligh raped me. (ye sab mere ghar walon ko nahi pta..or mene sharm k mare kisi ko nahi bataya..). He did all the things that a husband do with his wife. Mufti saheb her waqt demagh mein ek tension rehti hai kahin aisa na ho shadi ki pehli rat hi husband mujhe talaaq de de or mere abba jan ko jo ke ek boht mashur insan hain unko beizzati ka samna karna pade. Mufti Saheb main kya karu? Please kuch bataiye. Hazrat ek ladka hai jo mujhe boht pasand karta hai na maine usko dekha na usne mujhe ko. Na hi hum ek dusre se bat karte hain. Ladke ki maan ne dekh rakha hai mujhe. Usne mere ghar 50-60 bar risha bheja hoga mere lye lekn mere ghar wale kehte hain ke uska koi buisenis nahi hai wo boht gareb hai. Hum tumhari shadi kisi ameer gharane mein karenge. Lekin Mufti Saheb main chaahti hun ke jab wo mujhe itna chaahta hi hai to kiyu na main usi se shadi kar lun kiyunki mujhe ye khof rehta hai ke agr kisi anjan se shadi kar li to wo mujhe talaq na de de mere istemalshuda hone ki wajeh se. Mufi Saheb please guide me. Please kuch bataiye main boht tension mein hun.

Q: Mujhey apni bhanji ke bare main pochna hai 5 years old hai. Masha allah kafi tez hai, confidense hai, samjdar bachi hai magr bht shetan hai apni walida ko bhot tang karti hai uski walida apni beti ki waja se bahr nahi niklti kisi k ghar nahi jati r beti b bht chirchiri si ho gai hai walida betha k samjhati hai phr jo dil kehta hai wahi karti hai koi wazeefa bataen jis se meri bhanji apni maa ko tang na kare jazaka allah.

Q: Mujhey apni walidah maajida ke bare main pochna hai ke wo apne beton se kafi pareshan hain bete apni walida ka kaha nahi mante owr namaz ke bhi paaband nahi hai. Deen se bhot door hain owr unke husband yani mere walid saheb bhi apni dunya main lagye howe hain. Meri maa ne u samjhe k apni zindagi main na susral se koi khushi mili na husband se owr nahi beton se jinki waja se wo hamesha pareshan rehti hai inhi pareshanion ki waja se wo bp ki mareeza hai kafi chirchiri ho gai hain main ne socha aap se apna masla share karon shayad aap koi haal bataden hadith owr Quran ki roshni main. Aap please koi hal bataden jis se unhe koi sukoon ho r bete maa ki farmabardar rahen r deen se bhi wabesta hon.

Q: Meri shaadi ko 11 saal hogy hai. Mere teen bache hai. Mere shauhar ka mujhe har baar bura bhala kehna gande lafz waparna talak ki dhamkiya dena bht rude behaviour saal se raha bacho par bhi unka kuch khass aur ghar ka. Mera kisi par bhi unka dhyaan kb na tha ab baat yeh hai ki mujhe apne shauhar se bht nafrat si hogy hai aur un ke sth jismani talokat banana mujhe bht ganda lagta hai mujhe bilkul bhi mann nh hota balki gunah lagta hai mera jism mujhe bilkul bhi izzazat nh deta mere bache bhi bht thakgy hai unke baap ke behaviour se is surat me kya karna chahiye hazrat mujhe islam aur sunni shariat se batae.

Q: Mey bohot paresan ho is bat ko lekar ke- Maine meri bara bhai ke biwi ke sath jabardasti karke oske breast ko dabaya owr kiss kya,Phir ek din jabardasti karke oske body ke opar oth kar osku kiss kya owr oske breast ko dabaya owr moh lagaya ,aise karte karte mere sharamgah se mera Mani apni app nikal gaya. Aise harkat koi martaba ki ,lekin humbistari nahi ho paye.Owr har martabh hone ke bad maine taubah bhi ke owr is gumah se dor rehne ke kosis ke , lakin shaitan ke oswas ke bajah se bar bar ho gaye. Mey is kaam se door rehne ke bahat kosis kar raha ho. Is bar 15 din se yeah sab bandh he owr onhone mere sath bat bhi nahi kar raha hai owr oh bahat gusse me he. Mey ab yeah sab bat ko lekar bahat presan ho -

1. Kya meh ose supke se maffi mangna parega? Agar onhone muje maaf nahi ke toh Khoda Talla muje maaf karega?

2. Mere is harkat ke bagah se kya onka nikah totagi kya?

3. Maine toh onke sath humbistari nahi ke toh Kia yeah jina hoa he?

4. Kya mere is harkat ke bat oh mere bhai ke sath taluq rakhna jaiz hoga yeah dubara nikah karna parega? Agar dubara nikah karna pare toh bahat bara hungama ho jayege or jagrafasad hojaye ge hamara garme.phir me ghar me bhi nahi reh sakonga owr kise ko moh nahi dekha paunga sharmandi ke bajah se. Kyu ke yahi bat onhone hamari garme kise ko nahi bataya aj tak onke ijjat ke khatir. Islye me bahat presan ho please mufti sahab app koi hal nikal dejije. Apki bahat meherbani hogi.

Q: Mera ek swal he. Me ek ldko ko 7 saal se janti thi wo mjhe ye ykin dilata tha ki wo mjhse nikah krega mene uski ammi ko ghar walo ko mnane k lie jo hua sb kia wo mjhe pasand b krne lge the lekin is ldke ne hi kbi apni ammi se zikr nai kia ek din pta lga uska kisi or ldki se b 5 saal se affair h bawajud iske ye mjhse milta raha bate krta or iske ghar me b sbko us ldki ka pta tha tb b na unhone mjhe btaya blki wo b mjhse ese mzak krte jese shadi mjhse krege sbne mjhe dhoke me rkha jb mjhe sb pta lga to mjhe chod k us ldki se rishta pkka kr dia kisi ko koi afsos tk nai hua na me janti hu wo sb galat tha mjhe ehsas ho gya apni galti ka lekin mjhe ye janna h kya un logo ko unke esa krne ki sza duniya me b milegi kya kisi ko is trah dhoka dene ki koi sza h or wo ldki b mjhe ye ehsas dilati h ki mjhe sza mili jo esa hua or uski dua kubul hui jo use wo ldka mila waha se use flat mil raha h islie b esa hua please mjhe btae kya sch me mjhe sza mili h duae mene b magi thi phir meri kyu qubul nai hui jbki mene kbi galat tarike se shadi ki sochi tk nhi or me use kese bhulao wo dikhta h to bohot rona aata he.

Q: Mujhe pochna tha ke meri 2 betiyan hain Alhamdulillah nere bache buhat chote hain abhi or meri saas mere sath rehti hain or wo har bat ma kehti hain ye mera haq ha mere bachon ko jo bat wo batati hain mere bache meri bat nai sunte or mujhe poche bagair wo mere bachon ko bahir lejati hain kbi meri nand ke ghar bhejdeti hain or mere husband b kuch nai kehte ulta mujhe he chup karate rehte hain ma bht pareshan ai hui hun kia dadi ka haq bachon pe zayada ha maa se har waqt mere bacho ke samne khti ha tum log dressing achi karo mama se bolo ke tum ye dress nai pehnugy or agr ma dant don bachon ko tu kehti hain tum se bache nai sambhale jate apne kamre ma mere bachon ko lejati hain or ma kuch nai karsakti itni bebasi kia ye islam ha ke wo itne aram ma beta k ghr ma or beti ke ghr k kareb rehti jo chahe karti ha Allah ne apna ghr driver sab diya ha or ek or beta ha par phr b mere or mere bachon ke peche pari ha tang achuki hun ma unse mere hsband tu bs job pe hote ha ya computer pe bethe rehte hain namaz parhne chalejate hain ya khelne chalejate hain humare upar apni maa ko chor dete hain ye kesi neki kamani hui unki waja se kai bar mere husbnd se b larai hui kia ma apne bachon ko kuch keh nai sakti unko dosro k ghr jane se ruk nai sakti ma kia karo mere bache hain ma unse buhat pyar karti hun Allah meri madad karde plz bataye ma kia karun wo apne dosre bete ke pass kio nai jati jab ke wo akela ha usk b neighbour ma uski behan rehti ha ye kio nai jati usk pas... koi hal ha kia is bat ka?

Q: Mera sawal yah hai ka main aik larkay ko pasand karti hoon jise main ne sirf TV pe dahka hai wo mjy jatna nahi hai but mai uss ka bahgair ji nahi sakti kia meri uss ka sath shadi jaiz hai aur mujy koi wazifa batain.