Q: Mera ek ladki se che saal se rishta tha me hi uske piche pda tha wo shuru se nikah ki zid karti thi mene apni ammi se baat bhi ki thi unhone kaha uska kad chota he mene use ummid di tm koshish krti raho wo maan jaegi usne dil jaan se koshish ki mujhse jb b nikah ki zid krti ki gunah se bch jaege me taal deta tha wo mujhe smjhati b thi ki ye gunah he me hi tb use mjbur kr deta tha wo kbi room dating k lie nai mani magar tb b hm kafi close the isi bich mera kisi or ladki se b rishta bn gya mene use ye btaya b nai ki ab meri life me koi or b he use choda b nai na mere kehne pe mere ghar walo ne use btaya meri ammi b uske ghar bs rishta le gai thi pkka nai kia tha mene use ummide di ek din ammi man jaegi wo isi umid me ji rai thi jb use sach ka pta lga to wo bohot roi ki tm ya tmhare ghar wale bta to dete us ladki se rishta b pkka kr dia mujhe b jhuti ummide di ye tmne dhoka kia he zulm kia mere sath me b mjbur hu dusri ladki se rishta pkka ho gya dusri wali ko chod nai skta na wo ladki chodne degi ghar wale b dusri ko apna chuke Islie mene use mana kr dia mene mere ghar walo ne usse baat tk bnd krdi ab wo msg krti rehti he ki tmhe allah saza dega meri izzat mujhe wapas nai milegi lekin usne b sbko bta k meri b to izzat nilam ki baad me usne is galti ki mujhse mafi magi mene keh dia tmhe mafi nai sza milegi Kya wo sach kehti h ki ye mene zulm kia kya mene galat kia he.
A: Nikaah se pehle larki owr larke ke darmiyaan talluq rakhna haraam he. Is gunaah se Allah Ta'ala se sacha tawbah kare owr azam kare ke aainda tum aysa gunaah nahi karenge. Issy tarah larki ke khaandaan ku nikaah ka wa'da dena jab ke doowsri jaga rishta tay karliya saheeh nahi tha.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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