Istikhara for marriage

Q: I made isthikara for marrying a particular girl. I saw a dream that when I was standing in front of my home suddenly ground falls down and it forms like a well. I walk near to that and after the inspection their are two more wells with silent water. Coming back to first well the water is coming out through it but not through the opening, the water goes to up and down in the dream my father tells the water is not good but I told that is good. Also he said stay here somebody will fall in it but I told staying beside it is not necessary just make a fence with safety tape around it and I am going to do that. I can't understand anything I do another isthikara. Also I saw another dream that I am demanding something from my brother in-law he agrees and gave me the things. After that I am going to function. In that function some one giving a liquid to drink. I drank it. Next I saw I am crossing a canal. First time I am afraid and secondly I pass it after that I saw some of my neighbours teasing that "if any one want to drink honey he will lick it where it falls " I replied angrily that "why you saying this here." I am totally confused and get depressed day by day. Please help me.

A: If you and your parents are pleased with the Deen and akhlaaq of the girl you are making istikhaara for, and you are also pleased with the family, then you may send a proposal to marry her.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada