Q: Meray husband ka serious affair hay ek aurat kay sath jo kaafir he or us kay sath woh sab kuch kar chukay hn or wo aurat or bohot sai mardoun Kay sath so chuki hy meray husband nai kaee baar usko chorna chaha par chor Nahee sakay aj nobat yaha tak aagayee he kay woh uskay liyai mujhay kaee baar chor chukay hn. Meray teen bacchay hn or shadi ko 12 saal hogayee hn meray sai sirf normal baat cheet kartay hn husband wife jaisa koi relationship nahee hy. Mai bohot takleef mai hun samjh nahee aata kay kya karoun. Kehtay hn mai chor dunga usko jaldi or us sai shadi nahee karounga par us aurat ko pora yaqeen delaya howa hy kay mai tumko kabhe nahee chorounga. Us sai kuch boltay hn mujhsai kuch boltay hn. Jab woh us aurat ko chorna chatay hn tau unko depression honay lagta hy control nahee hota. Mai nai Bht dua Ki Abhe bhe karte hun par koi farq Nahee. Ab tau Mera dil heee hatnay laga hy apnay husband Sai.
A: Agar woh badkaari se alag nahi hota aur ne apne ko sawaarne ki koshish kare to unse judaayegi haasil karlo.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
Q: Mai nai online sawal kiya tha apnay husband Kay baray Mai mufti Sahab nai kaha chor do apnay husband ko matlab divorce lai Lun?
Husband ka affair chal raha hy but khud unko lagta hy tau affair nahe just time pas hy. Unho nai mujh sai kaee cheezay karwaee Kay aisa Karl waisa Karo mujhay yai pasand hy woh pasand hy Mai nai Sab kiya masalan gomna phirna Acha dress up hona apnay apko fit rakhna, jo kaha woh kiya phir bhe woh mujhsai door hn is aurat Kay pas jo kafir hy unko apni ungliyoun par nachatee hy jo woh kehtee hy woh Suntay hn has mujhay woh apna dost samjhtay hn woh Sab jantay hn Kay yai Sab bht ghalat hy magar phir bhe yahee kartay hn. Us sai shadi bhe nahe karna chatay or na mujhay divorce Diana chatay hn magar time uskay sath hee guzarna pasand kartay hn. Yai mere baat samjh nahee aatee bht selfish insan han woh khud boltay hn apnay apko.
Is Mai Kya karna chahiyai bht dua ki kartee hun mera dil bht kharab hogaya hy dil chata hy Sab khatam krdoun magar kb sochtee hun tau bacchou ka khayal aata hy bht dar lagta hy.
Divorce hee is ka Hal hy? Ya phir Mai alag hojaoun unsai taluk khatam kardoun baat cheet waghaira?
A: Agar woh haraam kaari ke oopar israar kar raha he aur mana` karne se woh rokta nahi ne sharmindah hota he to ayse khaawind se alag rehna behtar he. Talaaq lekar us se juda hojaye.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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