Pareshaani ke liye ilaaj

Q: Meri shaadi hokar ek saal hua. mai aur mere shohar me bahut ziyadha mohabbat thi.humare Saas Sasur hum dono ki mohabbat se na khush the.kuch na kuch kark Saas Sasur humare shohar k dil me nafrat dalne ki khoshish karte the but .mere shohar ko mere upper bharosa tha maa baap ki baton me nahi aate the.. Abbi mai apne waliden k ghar aake 2 months hua .. Pregnant hone k liye mera ilaj chaleko tha.. Doctor ne pregnant hone k liye 10,000 mg ka injection diya Usk 3 din mai bahut sust hogai meri halat bahut kharab hogai thi chalne b nai hota tha..aise me meri Saas mujhe kaam karne k liye torture kar rahi thi..but mere shohar mujhe rest me raho kark bole..maine Saas se kaha meri ammi k ghar chodo 8 din k liye mai tabiyat achi karleko aatiyu..to Saas aur saasur ne mile kar mujhe per ghalat thomat lage mere shohar k saamne bole mere shohar naraz hokar mujhe dosre din lakar mere walidain k ghar chodiye ..mujhe tabiyat sudhar ne 15 se ziyadha din hoge chalne ki b Kabil ki nai thi.. Aise me mere shohar akar achanak mujhe per gussa hone lage ghar chal nai to mai tumhe talaq dedunga kark.mai boli mujhe thoda time diyo sudhar ne mai sirf bed rest me hu..mai sasural aatiyu karko boli to mere shohar b maanliye ..phir kuch din baad achanak zewarat hona kai wo bank me rakhe to interest aata kark bole ..maine kaha ek baar badhon se b pucho to mere shohar gussa me aakar chalgae Usk kuch din madersa me arzi diye k mai kise ladke k saat hu mere walidain b shaamil gain ..a log bahut character less admiyan gain mai meri biwi se chutkara chahtu kark bole ..mufti ne kaha k ilzam to lagaya isse sabit karo kato abbi tak sabit karsake ni...mere shohar k saat un k walidain b aae the..ab mere shohar sirf ek hi baat bolren k mai isse chutkara chahutn karko ..halank mai sirf mere shohar k siwa kise saat b nai phirti thi.Mere shohar khud janten k mai perde me rahtiyu unk ilwa kisi ko dekhti b nai karko..Mujhe nai samjh me aara achank se mera shohar Jo mujhse. Ittni mohabbat karte the.. Aaj mujhe ilzam kaisa lagren aur mujhe se chutkara chahren ..kya hua mujhe se ittni nafrat samjh me nai aara k mai kya karu mujhe yakeen hi nai hora a mera shohar bolren karko ..

A: Aap apne deen ke oopar madhbooti se jame rahe zarra baraabar kamzori ne dikhaao. Pehle zamaane me bare auliyaa par bhi is qisam ki aazmayish aye woh jame rahe yahaa tak ke Aasiya jo Fir`oun ki ghar waali thi unke oopar itne sakht aazmayish aayi ke jaan bhi dedi. Phir Allah uski tareef aur madah farmayi aur aakhirat me woh Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) ke sath hogi. Kis qadar bari fakhar ki baat Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) ki ma`iyyat aur saath hona.

Rozana Qur'aan Shareef ki tilaawat kar ta`leem ke saath subuh shaam aur zikr aur du`aa bhi karti rahe.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)