Marital problems
Q: Meri shadi ko 5 saal ho gye hai. 2 bache bhi hai. Mere shohar jo hai, mai aksar unse satisfied nhi ho pati. Wo peshe se wakil hai. Mera dil bhi aksar unki taraf mutmain nhi hota. Bht dua kari phir bhi becheni hi dil mai rehti hai. Woh puri rat porn mobile mai dekhte hai aur phir fajr bhi padhte hai. Kbhi kbhi qaza bhi. Depression ki goliya nhi chup chup k khate hai mujhse. Samajh nhi aata kia karu. Kbhi agar unse kuch baat krti hun to aksar arguement pe aa jate hai. Isliye khamosh hi rehti hun bht ghutan hone lagi hai mujhe. Ekbar ki baat hai yeh mujhe apne bhai k ghr leke jaana chahte the. Waha bepardagi bht hoti hai. Aurat mard bilkul freely batchit krte hai. Dosto ki biwiya bhi. Mujhe ye sab pasand nhi. Mene mana kia to bat badh gyi. Yaha tak kh gye wo ke dekhna ekdin dusri shadi karunga aur s ukin ki zindagi guzarunga. Pta nhi jabse hi bht ukhde ukhde rehte hai bht manaya. Absabkuch daily routine pe hai. Mai bhi ghr ka kam aur wo court. Per esa lagta hai hamara dil ekdusre se dur hai. Ek nahi hai. Puri raat porn dekhte hai, ladkyon k photo dekhte hai mobile mai. Kiaa karu? Koi tariqa k wo ye sab chod de aur mere ho jaye dil se.
A: Aap apne deen ke oopar mazbooti se jame raho zarra baraabar kamzori ne dikhaao. Pehle zamaane me bare auliyaa par bhi is qisam ki aazmayish aye woh jame rahe yahaa tak ke Aasiya jo Firoun ki ghar waali thi unke oopar itne sakht aazmayish aayi ke jaan bhi dedi. Phir Allah uski tareef aur madah farmayi aur aakhirat me woh Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) ke sath hogi. Kis qadar bari fakhar ki baat Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) ki ma`iyyat aur saath hona. Rozana Qur'aan Shareef ki tilaawat kar ta`leem ke saath subuh shaam aur zikr aur du`aa bhi karti rahe.
Ye bhi saat martabah parhle: "Yaa Subboohu Yaa Quddoosu Yaa Ghafooru Yaa Wadoodu" aur uske khaane peene ki cheeze par dum karlo aur khud uspar bhi.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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