Q: I have this issue . I have met this girl and at first it was nothing but over after having two conversations with her, my heart has grown heavy. I have performed Istikhara last week and I had seen something like a dream. In this dream "there were 3 white lights and 1 Red light like a beam of light. I couldn't see anything in 2 white light. The Red light seemed to be the farthest away so I couldn't see anything within its limits. One of the White was the closest to where I stood and she was within its limit. As I've grown a bit attached, I tried to send a card asking to have coffee with me sometime, but the post man said the name didn't match anyone staying there.
A: Sincerely repent to Allah Ta'ala for communicating with a na mahram girl and make a firm resolve that you will not return to this sin in the future. If you wish to marry her, then you should speak to her parents.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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