Being bashful and shy

Q: I have got 2 questions.

1. I want my height to be 6ft or 6ft 1inch but my height for the past two years is the same 5/7 and I am 17 years old. Please send me any wazifa for increasing my height.

2. Now this is a very serious issue for me. I am a grade 10 student and I am very very shy. When we discuss in our English lessons I don't participate and if the teacher asks me about my opinion, I sweat and blush and go red and my mind goes blank and then I mess up. Every time this happens. I can't ask a teacher a question. I can't confidently talk to a teacher or express myself. Now I emailed my question last time and they said that its good that you arr shy and didn't give me a clear answer and I don't want to be confident because of girls. I don't talk to any girls but even with boys I can't do anything confidently and often my teachers tell me to get rid of shyness. I hope you understand. Please send me any wazifa regarding this shyness issue.

A:

1. This is not something to be concerned about. Hence do not stress over this.

2. It is not wrong to be bashful and shameful. Instead it is a praiseworthy quality as it will save one from falling into sin. Hence, do not pay attention to the negative comments and opinions of people.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

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