Q: Istkhira was about a girl, we both liked each other and were expecting to get married. But under her parents pressure she had to get engaged with some other guy. Now its been ten months. I have been asking Allah Ta'ala in every way to make a way. I was patient and took support of namaz etc. I have high hopes in Allah Ta'ala. Everyone has discouraged me to do so. So I decided to do istkhira to ask Allah Ta'ala that should I move on and leave her behind and tell me what is Allah's advice because I don't believe what people or situation say. I believe in Allah and his power. So I strongly I asked Allah Ta'ala you tell me. And in ten months my relation with Allah Ta'ala has developed. I have been praying for something which this world has termed as impossible to happen ( not something against Shari'ah). So last night I did istikhara to ask Allah Ta'ala advice. What I saw is the ayat 163 from surah baqra which I recite in manzil and listen in ruqya on every second day. "And your god is one God. There is no deity [worthy of worship] except Him, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful." in Arabic. And then I saw my Ameer of the masjid (head of masjid) telling me to pray for 9 days 3 witr after maghrib so that you have woosat e rizq. What should I do? Should I leave the conquest against the sketches of this world that if there is asbaab and halaat then only things would happen and back off.
A: Leave the girl and continue with your life. If the girls parents are not happy to get their daughter married to you and they wish to get her married to somebody else, then there is no point in you pursuing this.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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