Tawajjuh

Q: I know that Sufis practise Tawajjuh on their mureeds so that they become more inclined towards practising on Deen. How do they practise it? Is it also allowed for a "basic" Muslim to do Tawajjuh so that some Muslims become more inclined towards Deen or some kaafirs also become inclined towards Islam? If yes, what is the method of Tawajjuh?

Circulating Ahaadith via social media

Q: It is fast becoming a common trend for the English translation of Ahaadith to be circulated via social media eg. whatsapp etc. Recipients generally read these messages wherever they may be and in whatever state they may be in. Some examples of these are, the recipient may be in a mall shopping or driving or at the beach or whilst eating or in a social gathering etc. Often, recipients not being desirous of reading the hadith or may have received that hadith from ten other contacts, ends up just browsing through the hadith like any other unimportant chat. It appears that the respect of hadith is lost due to this type of circulation.

1) Is it in keeping with the adab of ahaadith etc to read it on the mobile phone?

2) Will it be more appropriate to send a hadith to a specific person only upon the request of the recipient?

Sending one's photo to propose for a girl living in another country

Q: I have a dilemma, there's a girl in Pakistan looking for a husband and I am living abroad (UK), I have seen this girl's photograph, but she will probably (Allah knows best) want to see how I look like when I show interest. Is it allowed for me to send her a picture, which can be deleted thereafter. If not, what should I do. Thanks. I need a solution if it's not allowed.

Encouraging one's children to accept Islam

Q: I was a Hindu and have two daughters. I have married a Muslim man after accepting Islam but my daughters 14 and 12 years old have not accepted Islam. We are trying our best to make them understand and accept Islam. If they don't accept Islam what should I do? Please let me know. Am I at fault? Does Islam say this that if children do not accept Islam then no relation should be kept with them?

Waseelah

Q: Is waseelah haram in Islam. If it is permitted then kindly, give the proof. Some People believe that prayer is accepted immediately if you give reference in dua like: O God ! Accept my prayer due to prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), as he is the beloved one. Why most Muslims do this as nothing is required BTW god and his slave. We can communicate with god directly. Give me proofs or else I can not believe in such things as I am confused. Dr Zakir Naik explained that it is haram.

Marital issues

Q: I am married for four month. My wife doesn't initiate sex with me, every time I have to go close to her to do sex. In Islam can a husband can kiss his wife's private part? I am frustrate because my wife doesn't show her feelings toward me.