Exchanging gifts

Q: There is a custom in some communities, that is; when we give some prepared food to our neighbor or somebody they always give back something which they prepared, in the same plate in return. The problem is, when nothing is found in their home they refuse to return our plate empty and say that, "I will give later"because of custom. Is this an act of sunnah to give back something as hadya in the same plate when one receives hadya from a neighbor or someone else?

What does عصبية mean?

Q: I am having difficulty understanding a hadeeth which I read in Muntakhab Ahaadeeth under the chapter 'Rights of a Muslim', hadeeth number 172. The narration of Fusailah Rahmatullahi Aleiha. Also could you explain the real meaning of العصبية to me.

عن فسيلة رحمها الله انها سمعت اباها يقول سألت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فقلت يا رسول الله امن العصبية ان يحب الرجل قومه قال لا ولكن من العصبية ان ينصر الرجل قومه على الظلم رواه احمد

Hadith query

Q: Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said: "If a woman eats sweet melon, she will give birth to a handsome and pretty child." Please can mufti saheb verify if this is authentic? Which type of Melon does this refer to?

Talaaq of a person who is not in his senses

Q: I have a question about divorce. My husband is a high blood pressure patient and nowadays he is suffering from facial paralysis and a heart problem as well. So when his BP shoots, he is not even in his senses. He pronounced divorce four times in that stream anger and high BP and when he found me weeping then he realised that he was out of senses and pronounced that word. I am very upset please guide me.