Nikaah, the Sunnah of Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)

Q: I am 28 years and suffering from alergetic Asthma since 2004 and now I am doing a job as a teacher and related with the Tablig Jamaat. Now my family is forcing me to marry but I am afraid to get married as I am comparatively weak internally but I look like a healthy man, so no one believes me to be a weak man. What can I do? Please advise me.

Inheriting from a kaafir

Q: I would like to know if I am able to inherit from my mom who is a kafira? I want to know if I can travel overseas by myself to see here (since my husband can't accompany me and my son is not of age) and sort out what she is going to give me Insha Allah, such as an apartment and some other items about which I have no knowledge? What do about the money in the bank account that she opened in my name. Can I take that money including the accumulated interest?

Washing the feet in ghusal

Q: Is it O.K to wash the feet while standing upright during wudhu without using hands to make khilaal between each toe, because I am over weight. I just thoughrally wash my feet by spreading my toes fingers while standind, I do that only when I sit at the masjid Wudhu Khana. While at home I make the wudu in a standing position, because of the over weight, it's hard for me to sit in the bath tub to wash my feet using fingers. Please Advise me for this.

Dream

Q: I have seen a dream at the time of fajar. I saw that there was a marriage ceremony at the road. People were happy and waiting for the baraat. Suddenly crackers burst and peoples cried with joy the baarat has come. When I was approaching the baraat a women put a haar of roses and motia around my neck. Later on I saw that I wore a sherewaani rusted colour with some beautiful very small lights on the sherwaani shoulders lighting. My elder brother wore same colour sherwaani with the same lights except that they were not lighting. My mother was very happy to see my sherwaani with blinking lights.

Purdah from one's male cousins

Q: In islam one is meant to keep strict pardah in front of ones cousins. I am Aware of a Girl who after becoming baaligh has done things which are wrong she has exposed her body to her cousins brothers and vise versa she had allowed one of her cousins to play a filthy action of him doing jima in the condition they both had clothes on she has allowed them to touch and feel her. They were the early stages of her becoming baaligh she doesn't know why she allowed such things to happen. She regrets and has remorse over such wrong doings as well as asking Allah Ta'ala for forgiveness is there anything she could do?

Loud Zikr

Q: People take bayat/pledge to a Shaykh and there is a system of Tasbih 6, 12 and on and on but there is Hadith in Tabarani that Amar ibn Salama (Radiyallahu Anhu) said that we were at the home of Abdullah ibn Masud in between Magrib and Esha and in the mean time Abu Musa (Radiyallahu Anhu) came and said I saw a matter that terrified me, some people have came into the Masjid one of them said  recite subhanallah alhamdulillah. Then Abdullah (Radiyallahu Anhu) came to the Masjid and said to them you have deviated. In another Hadith in Abunuayim that Abdullah ibn Jubair (Radiyallahu Anhu)  has reported by his son that some people came in Masjid and in the time of dikr they fell to the ground then he said to his son do not meet with them.

From this I understand that this type of tasbih was not there in the time of sahaba (Radiyallahu Anhum). So what is the truth?

Taweez

Q: I am wondering if you can help me please Inshallah. Would you be able to write Surah 12 word for word for me so that I can wear it as a taweez please? Or is it permissable to print it off from the net and wear it?  I have been told that a taweez has to be written with a special black or blue pen on clean paper where dua's and quls are read on the pen before writting. Can you let me know?