Q: My husband and I have been experiencing marital problems for quite some time now with no resolve. As a result, I have written out 3 talaaqs and asked him to sign the paper on which I wrote the words : "I 'husbands full name' hereby give 'wifes full name' a talaaq." Only under the first one did he write his name but no signature acknowledging that all 3 are valid. Is this talaaq valid? If so, how many have been given, and also, what should my next course of action as wife be?
Q: I have been given 2 talaqs on the 23 Nov 2012 but now my husband and I would like to reconcile but I want to know how soon should we reconcile. Is there an expiry period after a woman has been given 2 talaqs?
س: الاستنجاء واجب بعد خروج النجس من السبيلين. هل يجب الاستنجاء قبل كل الوضوء؟ هذا مقصودي. إذا أنا إستنجيت مرة بعد خروج النجس من السبيلين، و بعد ساعتين مثلا، أريد أن أتوضأ - هل يجب علي الاستنجاء قبل الوضوء (إذا لم يخرج النجس من المخرجين)؛ و لكن وقع في رأسي الشك بخروج النجس، و لكن لا يوجد اليقين أو العلم اليقيني بأنه خرج النجس من الفرج مثلا. في الحالة الموصوفة يجب الاستنجاء أم لا؟ هل يجب الاستنجاء قبل كل الوضوء؟ أو ذلك مستحب فقط لا واجب؟
السؤال الثاني: هل يجب الاستنجاء بعد خروج الريح من الدبر؟
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