Homosexuality

Q: I am 32 year old Muslim man getting married in a couple of months. My problem is that I get sexually attracted towards boys and since childhood to till date I have multiple sexual rekationships with boys. My problem is that I don't get attracted towards females and this issue is there with me when I was almost 7-8 years old. I met Dr's also in this connection but after doing some test they said bilogically your male sex hormones are normal only it is mental preferance. I dont want to destroy anyones life. Requesting you to please help me in this, so that I can control my emotions and live a respectable life and also save from myself from gunnah.

Wife desirous of moving near her sister due to loneliness

Q: We live in one area.. I have grown up and stayed all my life there.. My parents are nearby.. My friends.. Masjid where I offer my salats.. My wife says she is all alone the whole day and got no company.. It's not that she isn't provided with a shelter or security.. Now she wants to move to a place in an area where her sister's resides... She is pressurising the husband to let go of the current residence and move to the area where her sister's stay... Not that where we are currently staying is a bad place or the husband is denying her shelter.. And she is doing all this under the pretext that it's her right as a wife and I should comply... Is this jayaz permissible or has the husband got a right to give in to her demands.. 

Wudhu ke baare me shak

Q: Me jab naya wudhu karti hoon mujhe lagta he ke mera wudhu theek tareeqe se nahi huwa ya to wo toot gaya he aur me dobaara wudhu karti hoon. Baar baar wudhu karti hoon. Namaaz parne ke liye jab bhi khari hoti hoon to aisa lagta he ke mera wudhu toot chuka he. Me kya karoo?