swearing

Fear of zihaar

Q: I am very tensed about a situation. I was having an argument with my wife and in anger I wanted to call her "Mother F______", but my tongue got stuck and instead I uttered the word "Mother" from my mouth. Have I committed "Zihar" though my intentions were not to call my wife "Mother". Should I now need to atone by freeing a slave, or observe fast, or serve food to needy people? My intentions were not to call my wife this.

Husband saying "Our nikaah is haraam"

Q: I have been married for 27 years. My husband used to beat me but now his health doesn't allow so he calls names. Recently he crossed the line by saying that our nikaah is haraam and as a result our children are haraam. I am very upset and troubled. He prays 5 times a day and even wakes up for tahajjud. He has read the tafseer and been for hajj and umrah.

Swearing god

Q: Back when I didn't know much about Islam, I used to occasionally say swear words like 'oh my ******* God'. I, by no means intended to insult Allah, and was mostly unaware of what I was saying, it would just come out of my mouth automatically. Did this take me out of the fold of Islam? If so, do my prayers between then and me coming back to Islam not count. I am very regretful for every saying it and would never repeat such stuff intentionally now.

Kisi ku "Aap pesun par saanp bankar bethe hen" kehna

Q: Mera sawal ye ha ke agr shohar pese ne de bilkul bewi ko koi pese na de kharch k lye or uspar bewi gusse me keh de k aap pesun pr saanp bnkar bethe hen jiska mtlb saanp kehna nhn ha shohar ko blke aik misaal dena ha jese pesun pr kabiz hen or kuch dena nhn chahte... Tu kya ye gaali ha? Mufti shb isme koi gaali dene ki niyat nhn the srf muhawra istemal kya gya tha. Plz meri madad farwayen.

Kisi ku "tum aasteen ka saanp" kehna

Q: Mufti sahab mera sawal ye ha ke agr koi ye kahe tum aasteen ka saanp ho tu kya ye gaali dena ha? Kun ke ye aik mahawra ha jo urdu me istemal hota ha. Iske elawa ye kehna ke tum pesun par saanp bankar bethe ho ye gaali dene ke zamray me tu nhn ata na? Iska mtlb ha k aap ne pesun ko khazana bana lya ha or aap usme se pese kharch krna nhn chahte. Bolne wale ki niyat gaali dene ki nhn blke usne srf mahawra istemal kya ha. Ye mahawray normally istemal hote hen tu kya ye kehna thek ha?

Khatarnaak jumla kehna

Q: Mufti sb main na ek dost sa kaha ka imaandarai ka sath business karo kaam karo us na aga sa kaha ka imaandari sa ****hasil hota h us na gali nikali aur wo gali main nahi bta sakta laikin mard ki sharamg ka mutaliq gali thi to main na is jumla ko har giz acha nahi samjha aur astagfirrullah kaha us ko bhi kaha ka toba karo kya ya fohash goi h ya jumla kufr imandari sa mtaliq.