before nikaah

Nikaah in the state of janaabat

Submitted by user2 on Thu, 2018-02-08 06:53

Q: I had zina with a girl (both of us are unmarried) right 1 hour before our Nikah, we didnt got time to take a bath and we completed our nikah like that only. Is my nikah valid or invalid? Should I have to do again nikah with her?

Important Note: The girl had zina with a person long time ago in her teenage years, in her past...and she repents it. After that I had married her. 

Bride prevented from seeing in-laws house before marriage

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2018-02-06 07:04

Q: There is a tradition when the bride's parents go to the groom's house for discussion, they leave the bride at home. The groom, his parents, bride's parents, everyone are present in the discussion related to marriage, except the bride. The bride is not even allowed to see her in laws house before marriage.

I feel all these rules are made by the society to deprieve a woman of her rights. Since it is her marriage, the bride should be allowed to be present during the discussions, just like the boy. And she should be allowed to see her in laws house before marriage, as she will be spending her entire life there. I am getting married soon, so I just want to know if visiting the groom's house with parents and taking part in discussions, will not be against Islam.

Issuing a divorce before getting married

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2017-12-30 06:35

Q: I wrote on mt mobile 3 time divorce and showed it to my mother and told her that if you don't get me married in 6 months to my engaged wife, I will send this message to my wife. I only wanted to scare my mother. Thereafter I deleted it. Did a divorce take place before my nikaah can even happen? 

Nikaah se pehle walima ho sakta he?

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2017-11-25 06:25

Q: Kya nikah se ek din pehle walima ho sakta hai? Pehle behno ka nikah or rukhsti hogi uske baad agly din mera nikah hoga. Aisa ho sakta hai?

Man saying "the next three women I marry are thrice divorced"

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2017-03-26 07:09

Q: A man said 'the next three women I marry are thrice divorced'.

1. If the man marries a woman, the divorce will automatically takes place, but if he marries the same woman again, does divorce take place?  

2. Is there any way around this if divorce takes place, like getting somebody else to marry on your behalf?

3. If a man says to a woman who is not his wife 'I give you one divorce'. If they get married does talaq take place?

Making a thorough investigation before making a decision

Submitted by admin on Tue, 2016-03-15 16:47

Q: I had indented to marry a lady then during our conversation after couple of months before nikaah I came to know that she is greedy and I fear that she would do the way she likes to do and will not listen to me because I believe she is a professional excusor. I strongly feel that this marriage will not work. I refused once then through a third person we sorted out and tried to re-continue. Now again I am feeling the same situation. Should I go with this marriage or not? I am confused. My family says in this country you don't know people are very different. That lady was married before and got divorce from her husband in a couple of weeks. Please guide me. She said she did istkhara and it was ok. I did but got nothing, no feeling etc. still same.

Shaadi se pehle zina karna

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2016-03-05 16:46

Q: Mera sawal ye hai ke agr biwine shaddi de se phale sex kar chuki hai ek se ziyada afrad ke sath wo bhi anginat martaba aur shaddi ke bad agr wo apne shohar se iske bareme batati hai to use nikha me rakhna chaye ya nahi rakhna chaiye ya fir talq dena chaiye? Aur abhi bhi us ka dil jise zina kiya us me thoda bahot atka huwa hai jise ke sath zina kiya sabo ki shaddi hogaye hai aur unko ek se do bacce bhi hai. Aise halat me kya kare meharbani karke baye Shariyat kya hukum deti hai is bareme? Mai mere bhai ki pareshani aur nahi dekhsakta.

Communicating via one's sister before marriage

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2016-03-05 07:18

Q: A girl is engaged to a guy, her nikaah will be after few months. The guy's sister is close friend of the girl. So is there anything wrong if the girl asks her friend who is the guy's sister to convey him some deeni demands that she has from her future husband? (like the girl wants her husband to get involved in work of tableegh and wear Islamic dresses and few other demands). Similarly, is there anything wrong if she put forth these demands to her future husband via his sister?