wishing good for others

Q: I dreamt that my husbands brothers wife tells me at a gathering that they will be going on umrah next year. I remember feeling so sad because it wasnt me going and I think to myself, how and where do they get the money from to go, it was my intention and now she is going? I felt terribly sad. Her husband works with my husband so where do they get the money from, was also part of my thoughts. We don't get along, but there have not been any disagreements or arguments between us. Could I be feeling jealous because in my dream they plan to go and I cant? What does this mean?

Q: My dream I had is about someone I know who divorces his wife in my dream. He then approaches me and I find myself in his home. I am sitting by an open window and there are cats outside. I then reach to pick one up and when I have him in my hand it wants to bite and scratch me. I wake up feeling very concerned about this person who divorced his wife.