disrespect

Respecting one's mother

7 years ago By admin

Q: My son spent the weekend with us. When he was leaving, he was was rushing so I asked him if he was rushing for an appointment. He said he is taking his wife to the gynae. I asked if she was expecting and he replied No. That night he phoned to say that his daughter wanted to speak to me. Excitedly, she told me that her mummy was having another baby. I phoned my son the next day to ask him if his wife was expecting. To my surprise, he got upset and told me to stop probing. I told him that I am his mother and I will only make dua for him. He spoke to me very harshly and began arguing with me saying that by me asking him questions, his wife is having issues with him. His wife is a very controlling person and my son cannot do anything without her permission.I told my son that I will forward this issue to a mufti as he feels he is right and I am wrong . Kindly give me a solution as to what to do. I am really grieved at my son’s behavior. Jazaka Allah

Quraan ko zehn me parhna

7 years ago By user2

Q: Maire kano me Qura'an e Pak ki aayte (jo mujhe yad hai) aur tilavate (jo mai sunta rahta hu) goonjte rahti hai har waqt (zyada tar waqt) kai bar mai gungunane lgta hu chalte firte bhi lekin dar lgta hai kahi ye be adbi to nhi! Halaki mai janboojh kar aisa nhi karta ap bataiye mai kya karu?

Keeping the name Abdullah

7 years ago By user2

Q: I want to use name Abdullah for newborn. Is it ok considering the child will not be able to give adequate care to protect Allah's name in his books, school papers, etc. To avoid desecration during growing up years bound to be thrown around, is it better to use another name or is it allowed?

Qur'an Shareef ki tawheen

7 years ago By admin

س: توہین قرآن کہ سلسلے میں سوال ہے... گھر کی صفائی کہ دوران مجھے فرش پر ایک قرآنی ورق نظر آیا.... وہ شہید ہوا اور ایک آدھ انچ کا ورق تھا... اسے دیکھ کر مجھے سمجھ آ گیا کہ یہ قرآنی صفحہ ہے لیکن میں نے اسے اپنا وسوسہ سمجھتے ہوئے اس پہ جھاڑو لگا دیا....(وسوسے ایسے تھے کہ یہ قرآن ہے توہین ہو جائیگی وغیرہ ... مجھے چونکہ بہت وسوسے آتے ہیں تو اس وجہ سے میں یہ وسوسہ ہی سمجھا اور قرآنی ورق نظر آنے کہ باوجود اس پر سے جھاڑو لگا دیا ) جھاڑو لگانے کہ بعد یہ خیال دل میں اور پختہ ہو گیا کہ وہ قرآنی صفحہ ہی ہے... اسی ڈر سے اٹھا کر دیکھا تو وہ واقعتا وہی قرآنی ورق تھا.... جسے میں نے بعد میں اٹھا دیا.... ایسا کرنے سے کیا میں توہین قرآن کر گئی ہوں ؟؟؟ اور اب اس حوالے سے کیا احکام ہیں ؟؟؟ اور کیا اسطرح نکاح ختم ہو جاتا ہے ؟؟؟ جزاکم اللہ

Storing pictures of animate objects on the phone

8 years ago By admin

Q: I dislike pictures of animte objects because I know it is haraam. I usualy save pictures of hadeets and recipes and Duas on my phone. I was over taken by my nafs and saw a dress that I liked that was emailed to me. I decided to keep that picture as I can show the dress maker. The woman wearing the dress isn't modest as her top part is open. I won't make such a dress as I will make it in a modest way. My question is when I go to my pictures on my gallery on my phone all the pictures show on the screen together so the picture of the girl in the dress is next to a hadeeth picture that I have on my phone and it is all exposed on the same screen. I thought it was disrepectful but left it for a while. Now I really regret what I did. I deleted the picture but have I disrespected the Hadeeth in anyway and is that kufr?

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