Various masaail of Nikaah

Honouring one's promise

Q: My husband sometimes gets very moody and talks rudely to me. This is getting out of hand so we spoke about it and he agreed to stop. My husband is very weak and we both know that when he is moody he can't control himself and he will speak rudely to me. We both agreed verbally that if he speaks rudely to me I won't have any physical relations with him for 3 days. Mufti if within those 3 days if he asks me to have a relation with him and I refuse am I sinful?

Rights and obligations

Q: Is it permitted for a wife to keep in contact with her brother without her husband knowing by texting him daily and sometimes calling and neglecting the husband's rights? What is the ruling with wife keeping in contact with her family members, including her siblings and cousins? If husband feels like this is too much and the wife should be more interested in seeking ilm then can the husband not allow the wife to keep in contact with the husband until she fulfils the husband's rights? Please let me know what course of action I should take in order to resolve the issue because I tried explaining her husband comes first before her family members.

Cancelling a marriage proposal

Q: This is my friends problem:

I am engaged to a girl. Last week I saw her with her uncle (aunts husband) involved in sex and I also found that she has an affair with 2 other people. My family and the girls family don't know about her illegal relations. Right now I am still engaged to her. Tell me what to do? I can not break the engagement because her family is very powerful. They have money and position. I cannot tell this to anyone because it is difficult for anyone to believe. I don't have proof except that I saw them with my own eyes. Please guide me what to do. Should I marry her or tell me any dua or wazifa which will help me to expose there sin in front of every one. I can't refuse this marriage or run way. 

Paper marriage only to stay in the country

Q: A Muslim student studying in non muslim country since 2006.The home country & the place where parents are staying is not comfortable/stable and full of problems economically,socially,safety & politically. This country had very relaxed laws to work & stay in country after study in 2006 while student moved and had plan to take permanent residence which have been changed now in 2010 .The student plan to make court marriage with a Christian girl who want to help the student to stay in the country & get Green card /temporary residence and later permanent residence. This girl will get compensation from the student. This will be a paper marriage only to stay in the country after the education and later get residence. 

The student will not physically meet the girl but will relieve her after receiving the residence in the country.

The student will marry a muslim girl as his partner and use the foreign residence for his work & livelihood in muslim countries like Gulf states where he may benefit of foreign residence.

Missing Husband

Q: Question is it my cousin he is missing from 10 year 7year to go he did not contact with wife according to one has kno wn person in Australis he say i will never contact with my family but problem is it has wife wanted to merry with me because she have 2 kids and very Alon and she much love me what we can do?