Masaail relating to intimacy

Husband not being intimate

Q: I am very concerned about my marriage and I need help. I have been married for 5 months now and my husband has not consummated our marriage. Although, he is intimate in other ways and treats me well. I am very disturbed and embarassed to talk to him about the issue. I wanted to know how should I deal with it.

Oral sex

Q: If a person is married and they engage in oral sex and the fluid goes in either of the spouses mouth and they swallow it does this have the same ruling like eating something haram?

Husband masturbating

Q: I have recently found out that my husband masturbates when he thinks I'm asleep. I know it is not allowed in Islam. What should I do? Should I ask him directly or just pray for him or ask my parents for help?

Foreplay

Q: I want to ask you a question about foreplay in Islam .Please give me a brief answer with the reference of hadith as soon as possible.