Masaail relating to intimacy

Avoiding kuffaar styles and fashions

Q: I have in the past attended a marriage lecture for pre weds and they encouraged women to purchase lingerie garments that a worn by kuffaar women, in the bedroom for the husbands desires and they also mentioned one should adorn themselves before the husband in (marital relations). Is this something forbidden in Islam or encouraged? What is the approach to the bedroom life of a Muslim?

Oral sex

Q: My husband is diabatic and is on strong medicians which has side effects. One of the side effects is he can't always have sex, so to fulfill my needs he uses his mouth to satisfy me. He dosen't place his mouth inside me but at the outkirts of my vagina. My problem is I feel very guilty because its against the sunnah, although my husband tells me it is not haraam and he can not perform sex like a healthy person. Sometime he uses his fingers but that can be painful.

Oral sex

Q: I wanted to know if two partners play and had oral sex and semen was swallowed, would that render a person's 40 days prayer not accepted? I know oral sex is abhorred upon in Islam but what if it happened?

Exchanging naked pictures with one's spouse

Q: My question is that it has been almost a year now since my nikaah. But because of a few months more left in my studies my parents are not doing the ceremony to start my life with my wife. Now we text on phone and sometimes we get sexual temptations as well, so once in a blue moon we exchange naked pictures. She and I are both in love with each other. When I see those pictures while laying on my bed with my stomach on the bed because of those pictures and because of laying down I ejaculate as if I had sex. Is it okay in Islam?

Anal sex

Q: I want to ask you is this correct that if a husband does sex with his wife in her anus, then the nikaah will be invalid? Please guide me. Is this correct?

Anal sex

Q: My question is about anal sex. My father wants to have it with my mom and she is not agreeing. He said that he will take a girl and will have anal sex with her in front of my mom. What should she do?

Oral sex

Q: My question is if wife wants to suck husbands private part and she wants to take it in her mouth, is it permissible in Islam. What is the correct way of intercourse?