Advice

Consulting the parents with regards to nikaah

Q: My friend and I like each other and we want to make nikaah so that we can have a halaal relationship and not be boy friend and girlfriend. His parents said that they want to come home to speak to my parents about us making nikaah. My parents don't want us to make nikaah and they threaten me to stop wanting to marry him or else they will force me to marry some one else or they will hit him. I really want my relationship to be halaal and I wanat to make nikaah. What should I do? Will it be wrong if I make nikaah without my parents consent?

Rukhsati

Q: I want my rukhsati, please help me. My husband is not talking to me and not even replying to me. I am so worried. My nikkah was on the 4th november 2012.

Spiritual problem

Q: I have been having a spiritual problem and have been seeing the effect in my earnings. My life on the whole is Masha Allahlah well and no problems with my family, kids, health etc. Can mufti Saheb recommend a solution to the above as I feel that either I have a nazr or related problem (Jinn/jadoo) on my earnings only. Whatever I seem to do in business it just doesn’t seem to work out. You kind assistance and advise will be highly appreciated. Does Mufti Saheb recommend me to see an Aamil? If so kindly advise.

I have a friend who is involved in a Haraam relationship

Q: I have a friend who is doing the Alima course. It is her second year which is about to end. She is studying the Deen of Allah Ta'ala but at the same time she is in a haraam relationship i.e. she has a boyfriend. I am  her close friend but I don't know what to do whether I am meant to carry on talking to this girl because I am no one to judge her as Allah Ta'ala is the best judge. But at the same time I feel that me being a friend and carrying on speaking to this person, I don't want Allah Ta'ala to ask and take me to account on the day of judgement for being able to do something. What should I do? I have tried so much to persuade her but she doesn't listen. As a muslimah what do I do?

Finding mince in the food

Q: I boiled saag (mustard leaves) in lassi (liquid yogurt). Then fried garlic in oil (In Urdu it is called tarraka laggana). After this I added boiled saag in oil. Later on I noticed that there is mince (qeema) mixed in saag. While none of our family members added mince, nor we had mince at home. A Hafizul Quran Qari sahib told us that it was from any Jinn etc. So throw this saag in the bin.

  1. I am worried from where this happened?
  2. Why did this happen?
  3. Please tell us any Wazifa / Wird.