Q: If a person once used to commit some sexual sins but then he/she repented and now he/she does not fear to commit those sins again, will marriage be still obligatory for him/her? If he/she does not get married ever, will he/she be sinning?
Q: I am so ashamed of writing this question but I am posing it cause I really need help. Here is the story:
I always thought I am strong enough to fight back and can fight for my right. But recently a huge man trying to hit me and looking for a chance to beat me and I am short and skinny guy. whenever i see him my heart beat increases and I cant feel my legs. After this incident I started hating myself and I have lost my confidence, the guilt of being a coward is killing me. I cant see my face in the mirror because of shame. I always have the feeling that I am a coward and feeling so guilty that Allah (SWT) loves brave muslims and I am not brave. My question is will Allah(SWT) love and forgive a coward muslim and is there any cure for that.
Q: Someone used to commit masturbation some time ago. He then repented from the sin and doesn't want to go back there again. Now he doesn't want to get married and fears not to give his spouse his rights if forced to marry. As he doesn't fear any sin now, is it permissible for him to stay unmarried?
Q: Suppose a person used to fear fornication once but he did not get married. Now he does not fear sins anymore and can control his desires. Is marriage still obligatory for him?
Q: If a person fears that he will commit fornication if he does not get married, is it obligatory to get married? What if he once committed fornication but he necessarily does not fear it. It just happened once. Is marriage obligatory for him? What if he does not want to get married and if forced to marry he might not give his spouse her rights?
Q: If a person fears fornication and also fears not giving his spouse her rights what would be the ruling of marriage for him?
Q: What is the ruling of marriage for the woman who understands the seriousness of the husbands rights and fears that she will not be able to give him his rights?
Q: Due to excessive masturbation since my childhood, i have become very weak sexually. Now my family wants me to get married. I also want to get married but I try to run from it because of my sexual weakness. I do not want to be embarassed in front of my wife. Please tell what should I do. Also, I also feel shy when I think of having sex with my wife. I try a lot to stop masturbation but I cannot.
Q: Mera dil bohat ghabra raha ha kuch din sy, ayat karima ka wird b karti hu lakin aesy ghabraht hoti ha jesy kuch hona ha koi musibat ani ha, plz kuch parhny k liye bata dain jis sy Allah paak hm py any wali musibat aur mushkil ko dur kr dy.
Q: My question is that I lost my youth (jawani) and my parents are forcing me to marry, but I cant because of fear of ruining another persons life by marriage, so can I marry?