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Khwaab me bakra dekhna jis ki anthariyan us ki pait se bahar hain

Q: Khwaab daikha ke ayk bakra zameen par para hai or us ki anthariyan us ki pait se baahar hain lekin wo zinda hai or saans le raha hai. Phir main ne ayk door ke dost jis se kisi qareebi ke zariye jaan pehchan hui thi or koi rabta nahi hai us ke saath samandar par hu, wo samandar ke andar hai or main bahar hi ruka hu or samandar main dolphin machli or us k bacho ko daikh kar lutf andooz ho raha hu.

Shaadi se pehle ta'alluq rakhna

Q: Mera sawal ye ha mai kisi khatoon ko pasand krta hon wo b mjy pasand krtin han hum dono shadi krna chahty han lakin mere walida nhi maan rahin bcoz larki ka color thora sanwla ha istikhara b theek aya ha per wo khtin mainy nhi krna ye olaad ka haq nhi walidain ka haq ha zindagi mainy guzarni ha tumny nhi tum tu office may ho gy hm log ab chup k milty han yani us k ghr walon k samny magar mery ghr walon se chup k ye tarika ghair islami ha pr iska gunah kisko hoga hmary parents ko jo jan bojh k rukawat dal rhy or ghalat rasta apnany pr mjbor kr rhy hmny kch ghlt nhi kia srf aik dosry ko dor se dekha ha lakin dar lgta k kahin gunah na ho jay. Please is masly par roshni dalain or in halaat may agar mai ghar chor ke shadi kar lon tu kia wo jaiz hoga.

Badmaash ka ma'na

Q: Main ne galti ss apni cousin ku badmash larke ka word use kar dia jis par bht masla create ho gaya hai. Kindly ye bataeya ga kah is ka meaning ki hn q kah bht sa logon ki bht sa answers mila hen.

Shaadi me pareshaani

Q: Mera masla shaadi ko 5 se 6 saal hogaye aulaad nahi he. Uska shohar or sasuraal walay shuru se sahi nahi hai asal mai shadi ka istikhara sahi nahi tha phr bhi shadi kr di gayi ab surat-e-haal ye hy k baat baat pe bezati ki jati hh talaq ki dhamkiyan dewar tak izzat nhi krtay lekin me ne 5 saal se sabr kiya hua hy apne maikay walo tak ko nhi bolti meray shohar ki dusri shadi ka socha ja raha hy jab k mera ilaaj tak nhi krwaya jata aulaad k liye ek mahina ilaah hota hy phr saalo bhool jatay hy zameeni 0 pe zameenay li ja rhi hy lekin ilaaj k liye paisay nhi or ilaaj nahi karwatay mera sabr jawab de gaya hy dil bhi bezaar hogaya hy her cheez se plz mujhay koi raasta dikaye.

Kisi ku phone karne par talaaq ku muallaq karna

Q: Ma kisi tara bi in waswason sa nahi nikal pa raha hun. Actually muje jo cheez tang ker ri ha wo ye ha k ap na dakha ho ga k jab manay second time apnay words repeat kia k agar tum na baji ko call ki to mari taraf sa talaq ho gi ( please refer to my previous question), is jumlay ma main 'kal' ka word use kerna galti sa or ger iradi tor per bhul gya tha. muje boltay huay ni pata tha k manay kal ka word miss kia ha. ye sirf aik insani galti thi. mara maqsad qat,ai ye ni tha k ma zindagi bhar k liay apni wife ko mari baji sa bat kernay sa rok raha hun or asa kasay ho sakta ha. aik husband ko to proud hota ha agar us ki biwi husband k gar walo sa achay terms rakhti ha. manay ye words generally ni use kiay thay sirf us aik call k liay kahay thay. infact pehli bar to clear kal ka word bhi use kia tha. ma scenario bhi bata chuka hun ap ko k hamaray bich usi aik call pa argument ho raha tha or manay usi k lia shart lagai thi. Allah dilon k hal khub janta ha or amal ka daromidar niyyat pa ha. mari niyat sirf us call ki thi hamesha ki ni. ma ye bat Allah ko hazir nazir jan ker or oath la ker kehta hun. is surat ma maray case ki kia ruling ho gi? kia ma apnay biwi bachon k sath zindagi guzar sakta hun? mari wife na us din (19 august ko) call ni ki thi. lakin us k bad bat bhi hoti ha or ana jana b hota ha. mari biwi muje boht tasalli or dilasa dati ha k kuch ni hua parishan na hon lakin ma dar chuka hun. muje divorce phobia ho chuka ha. kia koi asi surat ha k ma apnay is haq sa dastbardar ho jaun q k muje hamesha ye dar lagta ha her waqt sochta hun k future ma mari zuban sa ye word khud ba khud nikal jaen gay. Me apna ghar kharab ni kerna chahta. Me apni biwi or betion sa be panah pyar kerta hun ma mar jaun ga mufti sahab plz muje is aziyat sa nikalen. Aap k jaldi reply ka intezar rahay ga. Jazaak Allah.