husband

Husband asking the wife to return from her parents house after delivery of the child

Q: My daughter Gave Birth First child how long is she allowed to stay with her parents? Both mum & child need mums attention Husband being inconsiderate wants her home as theirs no one to baby sit him. He’s complaining and nagging my daughter that driving from work to our home is tiring and no one to see to him. As a father I have been very patient.

Husband asking for talaaq

Q: My husband is very abusive and has anger issues. He is physically, verbally and emotionally abusive. Whenever he is in this state, he tells me our marriage is over. Our last fight I decided to go as I was hurt. We text daily and he would be nice and some times ugly. Yesterday he texted. I want my Talaaq, I want my Talaaq you better arrange my Talaaq, is this valid as a Talaaq? 

Pareshaani ke liye wazifa

Q: Main bht pareshan hoon meri beti ek saal ki thy tab sy lay kar meri husband usy maar rahy hai ab 4 saal ki hogai hay ab tak maar ta hy usy is tarha tu meri beti pagal hojae gi main kudh per zulim bardast kar loon per Aulad per nahi kat sakty kuch parhny ko bTaein ta k mery husbad apni Aulad sy mohabbat kary un ka khayal rakhu.. Main doo saal sy saudia main aae hun per abhi tak ek b umrah nahi kiya saudia main rah kar b umrah nahi kiya kuch parhny ko dain ta k mery husband mujhy mary nahi meri zarooraton ka khayal rakhy mujh sy mohabbat sy rahy Mery husband ki job ka hamesha masla rahta hay paki nhi horahy Allah karybjob paki hojae mery bachoin ka riqik un ko milta rahy kuch parhny ko dein k un ki jib paki hojae air koi problm nahi hoo. Mery husbad ki lufe main ya job main koi b problm aaty hay tu vo mujhy aur bachoon ko manhoos kahta hay k tu log manhoos ho meri life main isi liyh mujhy job main her dafa problm rahty hay tum logon ka roziq nahi milta mujhy .. Shab riziq tu milta hay unhy per job main hamesha problm b rahty hy kuch parhny ko dain ta k jib paki hojae aur husbnd khush hojae..ery husband ko shadi sy phly dosry larki pasan thy vo ab tak usi sy piyar karty hain roooty hain us k liyh is liyh mujh sy dorh rahty hain .. Bus vo larki un k dil sy mikal jae mijhy kahty hain tum us k paaon jasi b nahi ho tum ek nokrani ho mery liyh bus aur b bht kuch kahty hain .. Mery problm khatum hojae mery ghar main khushiyaa aaein darh nafrat larae mushkil yh sub khatum hojae kuch madad kary Allah k wasty pkz... Kuch parhny ki bataein.

Nisaab for zakaat for husband and wife

Q:

1. I have question regarding zakat. I am a married and a house wife. My husband is working in another city. My husband gives me money monthly for home purchases and some pocket money. We don't have our own house, we just bought a piece of land 5 months ago and want to build a house. My husband has 7000 dollars and I have more than 100 grams of gold. So is zakat and qurbani waajib on me and on my husband or do we first have to build our house?

2. If qurbani and zakat is waajib on us, do we have to pay zakat separately and do qurbani separately?

Husband drinking wife's breast milk

Q:

1. Is it permissible for my husband to drink/swallow my milk intentionally and unintentionally. I am breastfeeding his son. Whilst making love to me he squeezes my breasts and sucks my nipples very hard and there is milk all round his mouth and I know he is also taking it inside.

2. Am I responsible to make food for my father in law when my husband calls me to bed to fulfil his needs and satisfy him? 

Leaving one's gay husband

Q: I am married to a gay man for 16 yrs. What should I do? I feel betrayed and confused. He is a good Chinese Muslim in my eyes but he just told me he that he has an urge for man but never intended to fufil it. I do not know what to do and why I'm tested like this.