advice

Q: I need urgent help from you if you could kindly suggest any prayer or dua for me. I had a best friend who was always with me. He would take me for dinner and would happily share personal stories with me. I did a lot for him as well. He promised me that he will never break our frienndship and I was his friend for life. 3 days ago he wants to  break the friendship with me and he told me never talk to him. For the last 3 days I am crying continuously and not able to eat anything. I am always sad and whenever I see him in the mosque happily with other friends, my heart stops and I feel very sad. Please help me because I feel as though I am going to die. What can I do to get my bestfreind back. I pray 5 times namaz daily so why did this happen to me? 

Q: If elder sisters tell her brothers to offer prayers. Sometimes they offer and sometimes do not offer prayers on her advice. Her mother said that you make us (parents) sinners because we do not tell our sons to offer prayers in a right way and you tell them. Mother said that it is our duty to tell sons to offer prayers not yours (daughter). Mother said that I stop you to tell them to offer prayer. Now what should the daughter do? Can she tell them to offer prayer or obey her mother in this matter? She thinks that as she is elder from brothers she must ask them to offer prayer. Is her thinking right or not?

Q: I've been in a distance relationship for 1 year and 10th month. In two months it will be 2 years. Both of us are baaligh aqil and hanafi mazhab. My question is how can we make this relationship halaal? We know we won't stop talking to each other because we love each other so we want to make our relationship into halaal. My second question is he lives in different country which is India and he lives alone there because of his work. Woh na namaz ada karta h na roze rakhta h. The reason why I don't want to let him go is because I don't want him to go in wrong path and I feel that once he is with me he is not in wrong path. He is really nice man has pure heart but he doesn't offer his prayers nor he fast. What should I do to make him offers his prayers also keep his fasts? I'm worried about his akhirah more then mine. What should I do?

Q: I have a problem with my husband. For few days he is nice to me, then suddenly he changes. He stops talking, blocks my number an all. When he was nice to me my mother in-law used to say to him that I did black magic to be good with me. After some days he changed shockingly. I suspect he is under bad influence. I want to know if he is under black magic and we don't stay together also. How to check? What is the solution to his behavior?

Q: This is regarding obeying parents relating to academics. I have a hard time living up to my parents wanting very high achievements in terms of academics then I feel I am disobeying them. Please can you tell me what is best course as my siblings able to achieve their request but I am struggling.

Q: I have really low self esteem, lack confidence and tend to over think situations. Could you please prescribe any duas that may help my situation?

Q: Please advise. My wife does not want to have intercourse with me. I find my self wanting to stimulate myself using her shoe, can I do this? I am attracted to her feet. She won't even come close to me or satisfy me in any way. Please help I don't want to end the marriage.