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Dil ko saaf karne ke liye taubah kaafi he

Q:

1. Aik bayan me mene suna h Allah jiska dil saaf hota hai gunahon ke zang se uspe nigae remat farmata h apni to jis shaks ne gunahon se tauba karli hai n uska namae amal gunaho se saaf hogaya to kia uska dil bi gunahon ke zang se saaf hojata hai ya uskelye usko zang dor karne kelye dosra tariqa apnana hoga?

2. Allah ki nazar me ane kelye dil gunaho ke zang se saaf karna zaroori hai? 

Biwi ki na jaaiz ta'alluqaat

Q: Meri bv k najaiz taluqat thy 1 larky se jo mene khud rangy hatho pakra, mery 2 choty bachy hen,meri bv ne mujhsy wada kiya k ayenda koe talluq nahi rakhogi us larky se mujhy sirf 1 moqa dedo, mene bv ko 1 moqa dediya, magar wo ab bhi us larky se sms me chat kerti hai, jiska saboot mery pass hai, me ab kiya karo ? me apni bv bacho ko nahi chohrna chahta, magar ye sab bhi mujhsy birdasht nahi hota, me rato ko uth k roota hon, khowab aty hein k meri bv ne ussy shadi kerli, jab k meri bv mujhy bolti hai me apsy kabhi alag nahi hogi, me bv k azdawaji taluqat theek tareeqy se poory nhi kerha tha usko time or piyar nhi deta tha, but ab bohat ziada care kerta hon, magar phir bi wo ab sms per bat kerti hai us larky se, me kiya karo ?

Waalid ghar waale ko pareshaan karte he

Q: Muje apny Abu k bare mn baat krni hai, wo bht ek to shak bht krty hain, dosra in k dil me paisy ki hawas bht hai, Allah ka shukr h k hum achy hain, wo retired ho chuky hain, hum 4 sisters hain r ek bhai, na bhai k sath behavior acha h, usko kehty k tm mere bety e nae ho, abi bhai chota h, 2nd year k paper die, usko kehty agy prhna h tw khud kama k parho, bht sakht dil r paisy k hawas h, please esa kuch btaen k wo humare sath thek hojaen, jo kar re eas na kare, meri umer b 26 sal hogae h shadi ka kuch krty nae, ek rishta aea hua h us me b jany ki der krre, on logun ny han kr d ha, meri help kijie hum ghr waly bht pareshan hain, wo humare bap hain is waja se hum in se misbehave nae krty, bs khamosh rehty hain, jo kehty man lety hain, please help karen meri, Allah bht raheem h, shayd Allah ny apko humara sabab bnaea h.

Ghareloo haalaat

Q: Mera sawal yay sab hai ki meray waldain ka intikal ho chuka hai un ki zindagi say hi meray bhaiyon nay ghar main wanal macha rakha tha yahab tak kay saray paisay jo papa nay kamai wo sab jhoot bool kay rabah karwa diyay aur sirf aonay doston ko bhara yahan tak kay sadka khairat lainay ki nobat aa gai .meray yay bhai kuch kamatay bhi nahin thay aur hum sab ko daratay dhamkhatay ab un kay intilal kay baad aik ghar bacha hai wo ami kay naam hai meray bhaiyaun nay mery behnon ki shadiyan bhi nahin honay di ghar main gand macha rakha hai aur chacha ko bola to unhoon nay kaha kay yay hamaray khoon main hain is liyay ager yay maray yay nuksan karay to koi baat nahin.police ko batanay ko bola to kaha ghar ka maamla hai.aur ab achanak us main say aik nay chup kay shadi kar li hai aur hamain zor zabardasti us kay saath mila raha hai aur doosray bhai bhi milay hoi hain bara bhai jis nay tabahi machai hai us ko shadi say rooka aaur ab khud shadi ker chuka is sab main mery behnoon ki zindagi aur chootay doka bhaiyon ki zindagi barbaad ho rahi hai mery maa kay intikal ko do saal hoi hain aur do saal say main in ko samjha rahi hoon ab olzmujhay bataiyay kia karoon.bara bhai kuch kamata nahin hai phir bhi ghar kay grd main kabza ker kay reh raga hai aur rabahi macha ra ha hai.aur mujh say chotay nay jis say shadi ki hai wo nafsiati mareez hai aasay main meri bhnain tabah ho raji hai main kia karoon kuch samajh nahin aa raha plz reply

Wasaawis ki wajah se pareshaani

Q: Muje waham aur wasawis ki bimari he me isse bahut pareshan rehta hu har chiz muje har chiz me tarah tarah doubt paresan karte rehte he isse me bahut confuse rehta hu kisi bhi kam kar ne ke andar khof mehsus karta hu please muje is pareshani nikal ne ka koi rasta bataiye kya doubt aur wasawis ke buniyad par kisi chiz ko chor sakte he shaytan purani bato ke wasawis dalta rehta he me ignore karne ki koshis karta hu lekin kuch nahi hota.

Larki rishta se khush nahi he

Q: Thode din pahle mere liye ek rishta aya hi aur mujhe bahuth pasand Karne lage aur unki pasand ko dekh kar mere parents bhi unse shaadi Karne Ke liye tayyar hogaye.lekin patani kyu mujhe ye bilkul pasand nahi aaraha. my deendaar hu aur namazi aur my ek deendaar se shaadi karna chati hu aur vo ladka deendaar nahi aur mujhse kam padha likha shayad isliye pasand nahi aaraha lekin my kisise yeh baath bata bhi nahi sakti.bahuth baar istikhara Kiya lekin kuch pata nahi Chala khwab nahi yaad rehthe. aur na pasand rehne ki vajah se Allah kahi naaraz tho nahi ho jaye iski dar lagtha hi lekin kitni bhi koshish Kari pasand ni araha. my bahuth pareshan hu plz mujhe koi suggestion de dijiye aur mere liye Dua kijiye.

Waalidain hamesha jagra karte

Q: Mere Abu Ami k relationship thk ni h I mean k Ami Jo b BT krti hain Abu jaghra shuru kr deity hain BT nae sunty,hr wqat gussa mn rehty hain,unhu NY apny bhaiun se b ta'aluq nae rakha hua,na bolty hain in se,r Hume b yei kehty hain k WO log dyshman hain. Please mera ye problem solve or den,ta k Abu Ami APAs mn tw thk ho Jaen Abu ye SB gussa ,jhagra chor den,humari b BT manen.waiting for ur reply.jazakAllah.

Marital problems

Q: Mera nikah 2 saal pehly mery phopo k bety se hua ta. pr ma us k sath khush nhi hn.na mera koi match ha us k sath q k meri raza mandi nhi ti is rishty ma bht larai jhagry hoty hen.ma ksi or ko psand krti hn or ye bat meri mother ko b pta ha. plz mjy bta den mery masly ka kia hal ha.ma kia krun.