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Having a walima after rukhsati

6 years ago By user2

Q: I have been married for less than 6 months and will be having the rukhsati (reception) very soon, probably in a month. My wife and I go out occasionally and sometimes I drop her at work. We hold hands while I drive her to work. Is this wrong? We also cuddle at times. Is this wrong? We kissed few times. Was this wrong? What I mean by wrong was it inappropriate since the valima is yet to happen however I have not consummated her nor do I intend to until the reception is done in shaa allah but just have my concerns since I don't want to do anything wrong. Your advise will be much appreciated as the local muftis told me something about tanhai that if tanhai happened then I have to do valima with in 3 days. I am kinda scared and I don't get the point of tanhai. Also for your information we did have a small ceremony to inform that I have completed the wedding rituals. does this help?

Girls party feeding guests before rukhsati

6 years ago By user2

Q: A couple has done nikah and Rukhsati will be a few months later. The parents want to have a function in a hall and feed the guests to let their daughter go with her husband. After alot of insisting they are not doing that and now they are letting the husband take the daughter directly from the house without any function. The girl's side would like to feed their guests. The groom is totally against this. Can the parents feed their guests with another intention and not for the rukhsati?

Delaying the rukhsati

7 years ago By admin

Q: My question is I’m getting my nikaah done in dec and might get rukhsti in 2019. My question is how long it is allowed to keep a nikah before rukhsti any specific time period. Because I heard we cannot keep nikaah more than a year rukhsti should be done before a year.

Nikaah ke ba'd talaaq se mahr waajib hoga?

7 years ago By user2

Q: Arz ye he k mere sister ki shadi ko 2 years k arsa hone wala he or us k or us k shohar k darmyan izdiwaji talluqat qaim nahe howe hen jis ki waja shohar ki medical fitness he or tamam ghar walo ka zulm or ziadti he. Meharbani farma kr jald az jald written me fatwa arsaal karden. Mere 3 sawal he

1. Shohar talaq k waqt haq mehar dene ka pabnd he?

2. Doran iddat shohar naan nafqa de ga?

3. Shohar kehta he k me na haq me her do ga na naan nafqa. Is k baare me kia hukum he?

Rukhsati se pehle talaaq dena

7 years ago By user2

Q: Me ny apni wife ko aik talak di ha rhuksati sy pahly. But main question ye ha k me nikah waly din us sth batha usko ring pahnaie after nikah sub k samny aur pher 3 month tk wife k sth video chatting krta raha ho. But hum ny mubhashrat nae ki just video per dakha ha. ye bt uski family aur meri family ko patha ti. To kia iss condition me ruju me ker skta ho yia nae...

Waalidain rukhsati se rokte he

7 years ago By user2

Q: Maine ik ldke se apne ma bap ko bina btaye ik nek ur shareef ldke se nikah kr liya.hm log sath me business krte the. ldke ki walida ki moujudgi me. Ur fir maine bad me apne ma bap ko bta diya to unhone mujhe ghr me kaid kr diya.meri ik bdi bahen ur 2 chhoti bahene hai.ur unki shadi nhi huyi hai.mere shouhr dosri biradri ke hai is lia mere walid ne shart rakhi hai ki jb tk tino bahno ki shadi nhi kr denge.hamari shadi nhi krenge.ur isi shart k 6 mahine bad hi meri sas ka intekal ho gya hai.ur mere shouhr ur ik unka bhai hai bs.ur koi nhi hai khana pkane k lia roz unki appi ati hai.ab mere shaouhr chahte h ki badi ldki ki shadi k bad meri ruksati kr den mgr mere walid nhi man rahe hai.ur mere shauhr mere riye bahut rote hai.mere shouhr ne kaha ki mere ghr chali awo mgr meri ma ne doodh na bksne ki dhamki di hai ur kuran pr kasam bi kilayi hai ki bina ijazt nhi jana hai.mera shuhr bahut presan hai. Mujhe kya krna chahiye .ma bap ka sath dun ya shouhr ka .mere ahouhr me koi burai nhi bs biradri ki wajah se mere walid nhi man rahe h

Khalwat se pehle teen talaaq dena

7 years ago By user2

Q: Mera nikah hua tha or rukhsati nahe hui the.. is doraan kuch haalaat ki wajah se maine apni wife ko court k zariye talaq k papers bijhwa diye... talaq name pe 3 dafa alag alag likha hua tha k main talaq deta hoon... meri wife ne abhi tak un papers per sign nahe kia... un ki taraf se ek sahib sulah k hawale se aye thay q k un ko ye shak tha k maine ye talaq apni marzi se nahe di to maine un k samne bhi ye tasleem kia k talaq maine he di hai or maine is pe qaaim hoon ... phir maine apne walid or walida k samne bhi ye alfaz 3 martaba repeate kiye k main talaq deta hoon main talaq deta hoon ...ab main ye jan na chah raha hoon k kya hamari 3 talaq he ho gayi ? ya abhi ham dubara rujoo kar sakte hain ? kya dubara rujoo karne k lie halala ki zarurat paregi ya nahi ? q k mera nikah hua tha or rukhsati nahe hui the to meri wife iddat bhi puri nahe kar rahi ... rehnumai farmaiye

Khula before khalwat

7 years ago By admin

Q: My question is these if khula is taken before bidai and their is no physical contact between husband and wife, no out going, nothing, just a nikaah performed like an engagement. Girl is completely virgin. theie is no bidai at all. So does she have to be sit in iddat or not?

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