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Being ill treated by one's father

Q: My father is a banker. From my childhood onwards he doesn't treat me in a proper way. He talks evil to me and even send dirty videos. Try to touch my private parts. I never told anyone about it.I was afraid my family will be separated and my mother will have to suffer for this and I don't want people to thing bad about my father. Now I am 25 years old and completed my graduation. Allhamdullila Allah introduced me to Islam and I reverted to Islam in 2014. Now I read salaah keep roza and try to be in hijab which brings doubt in my parents' mind and they try to oppose. I don't understand what should I do next. please suggest.

Marital problems

Q: I am very troubled. My husband's Iman is already weak. Once a month we travel to Johannesburg so that I can visit my parents. My husband's parents have a flat here in jhb so we stay there. I have noticed now that in the flat that was furnished buy our in-laws that there is a frame with "Assalaamu alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatu" writtn in arabic. Its hanging in our kitchen. The thing is the kitchen and lounge is all in one, like its bascially 1 room. And my husband watches tv in the lounge. So basically the frame is exposed to the tv and the frame obviously has Allahs name on it. Its not my flat so I can't remove it. And A am afraid to tell my husband incase he says im just being parinode and wont listen. Which would be worse because now I think he doesn't notice. What should I do?

Mu'awwazatain parhna

Q: Mairy wife ko teen din se fever hai. Usko jagte me gunudgi me aisa lag raha hai jaise yeh palang par laite hain aur charon taraf white kapron log in par hans rahai nain. Yeh jagte me mahsoos hota hai. Koi dua btayen aur kya wajah haiyeh bhi batai Jazakallah khair.

Making ta'leem at home

Q: When I try to give dawah to my parents my parents bash me with yelling and other things by saying that Oh so now you're so old to tell us what is right. So what should I do? I don't want to argue with them. So should I stop giving them Dawah?

Serving one's mother in-law and speaking kindly to her

Q: I want to ask that I take care of my mother in-law who is unable to walk because of a weak spine. But she understands everything. She is mentally alright. But she shows that she doesn't understand how she urinates or other things. So I warn her for doing all this. Am I doing a gunnaah if I warn her? Please advise me because I find it very difficult to do all that work.

Mangni tootne ki wajah se pareshaani

Q: Mere mangni ayk saal rahi phir tot gae aur us larki nay apni bhabi kay bhai say foran shadi kar li. Mera problem yeah he ke mai us ko bhol nahi pa reha bulkay mai usko bholna nahi chata pershan rehta hoon us say abi be peyar kerta hooon koe galt keyaaal zain mai nahi ata bus yeah dua kerta hoon k Allah ji ager us per jado huva ha (uskay ghar waly kehtay haan) aur ager wo waha kush nahi ha to aaappp plz hum ko mila dain aaap yaqqeeen janeye namaz kay doran be ansoooo nikal atay haan meray bohet pershan hooon mai.

Difficulty in exams

Q: Please help me out with verses for success in exam for a child having difficulty to interpret and comprehend exam questions. He has a problem putting it to paper. I got all the other duas for exams. Is there any verse he can keep with him in his bag when writing?