Fear to speak to one's parents regarding nikaah

Q: I am 25 (male) from a well-off family and presently pursuing PhD in earth sciences with a decent fellowship but you know the environment here at the university not very pious (there is co-education in the university) and one finds it very difficult to control his emotions. Nikkah seems to be the best solution to prevent oneself in such a dirty environment but the problem is that I am not able to communicate the same to my parents. Now I request you you if you could spent some moments of your precious time to suggest me how to approach my parents for the same. I am ready to marry any girl from any nationality unless she is a pious and practicing Muslim.

Wo larki jo maa nahi bansakti, us se shaadi karna

Q: Mai aik larki se shaadi karna chahta hn. Hamary ghar waly taqreeban raza mand hain is rishtay par. Masla ye hai k mjy larki sy pta chala hai k wo maa nhi ban sakti. Mery yaha par do sawal hain:

1. Kya ye baat sahi hai k mai ghar walo sy ye baat chupaun aur unhy naa bataun jb k mjy ye baat qabool hai.

2. Kya kisi larki sy rishta is wja sy khatm kr daina k wo maa nhi ban sakti, drust hai. Kya kahi is wja sy mai gunahgar to nhi ho jata. Mera ye masla hall farma dijiya. Allah apko jaza dy.

Masbooq (latecomer) joining the Imaam before Salaam

Q: Whilst performing Salaah with Jamaat behind an Imaam, if a Masbooq (latecomer) joins the Salaah after the Imaam has completed four rakaats and joins just before the Salaam.

1. Is it necessary for him to recite the tashahhud with the Imaam for his Salaah to be valid or is it sufficient for his Salaah to be valid that he joins in the Salaah before the Imaam makes salaam?

2. Should the Masbooq recite only Tashahud in the Qa'dah or also Durood Ibraaheem and Duaa after Durood.

Experiencing a discharge due to sexual thoughts

Q: I was at friends house and some of her guests were saying inappropriate (sexual) things and I was trying not to listen but when I did, I got weird feeling in my private area and like something should be put up in the area (private area) but I didn't. I just sat there till the feeling left and when I came home, I went to the washroom and I had a bit more discharge than usual like it was kind of a lot. Should I do ghusul?