Making wudhu with compression stockings

Q: An old lady has been advised by a doctor to wear compression stockings on her legs for circulation. She doesn't have any wounds etc. on her legs. The stockings are from her knees and only the toes are open.

The stockings are very tight and she requires someone to put it on and remove it for her. Is it permissible for her to make masah over the stockings and only wash the toes for wudhu?

Kaffaarah for having intercourse with one's wife while fasting in the month of Ramadhaan

Q: I have a kaffarah for breaking a fast due to intimacy during time of fast. May allah forgive me.

Do I have to fast for 60 consecutive days or can I feed 60 individuals?

Also, if I have to fast should I do it with no delays after Ramadhaan? My issue is that I'm waiting for a doctors appointment which I have delayed already. The appointment for endoscopy will consist of taking medicine before hand and then I will go under general anesthetic. My concern is if I have to fast and I get an appointment from the doctors, I will not be able to keep the 60 consecutive fasts.

Therefore do I start and have a break for 2 days then continue?