Going to a person who is doing ruqya

Q: I had a question about one person who is doing ruqya his name is abdul rauf bin halima there are 1000s of people flocking to him for help with jaado, sihr, evil eye, jinn etc. Now he is in South Africa at the moment and its said about him he spent a lot of time in jamat 4 months etc. He is opening ruqya centers all over to to train the people to do ruqya. So what do our ulama say regarding him? Will it be ok to adopt his methods on ruqya?

Removing hair and cutting nails during haidh

Q: In Talim ul Haq Masaail pertaining to ghusal it says If one is in the state of Hadase Akbar or Janaabat then it is not permissible to remove, cut or break any nails or hair from any part of the body.

Is the above correct because in Fatawa books like Ahsanul Fatawa etc its says its disliked or makrooh e tanzihi to remove, cut or break any nails or hair from any part of the body If one is in the state of Hadase Akbar or Janaabat?

Being scared

Q: I don't know why from a couple of days I am feeling very scared  and my heart keeps beating and I get very scared at night to sleep and I get bad dreams. Can you please tel me why this happens? Please suggest me some solution that I get rid of it and Insha Allah I be well soon.

Getting married

Q: I'm a sister, 23 years old and soon I'm going to be 24. I'm not married yet because I don't have many chance to find a compatible
brother since we don't know many people who are religious because the country I was born is very secular, and people are very racist. My parents don't even want to know about brothers who are not from my same country and ethnicity, they refuse to accept their proposal. They want me to wait until I find someone from our own country, culture, ethnicity but I'm getting old. Usually nobody is interested in sisters who are over 24 and now I'm worried. Now I live in Europe with my family, so we don't live anymore in our country but yet they want me to find someone from there. I think my parents are not fair with me. I tried to talk to them but they don't want to know about, there's no way to change their mind. And in our culture to marry someone out of our culture is considered something as bad as apostasy. There's nobody I know and I trust who can talk to my parents about this. They all are the same, with the same mentality. Someone once told me that in this case I should accept the proposal from bothers who are not from my country since I cant find a religious brother from our country, but I am not brave enough because I am afraid I will find someone who'll mistreat me, where will I go then? So am I responsible for not accepting the proposal from any religious and compatible brother who's not from our country without my parents consent? What should I do? Please give me an advise and make dua' for me.

Not becoming dispondent

Q: When I was a student of standard 9, I failed in exams and my dad told me to give private exams of standard 10 and I told him that I did'nt want to give exams. I don't know how I told him. After 1 year I wanted to give a private exam and I submitted the form also and I was studying all out. But at the end  I gave my maths textbook to my friend and she didn't give me so I passed in all subjects but I failed in Maths. I feel very guilty and however my dad is always expectant of me whenever I am in trouble in trouble. So my dad told me to give a retest of maths and I studied and unfortunately I failed again. And didn't get admission in any collage.
Please help I want to study and more and more but I can't. I love my parents very much. And my parents had 4 daughters and no son so I want to raise my parents name. I finished Quran shareef 4 times and I am trying  to finish more. Is there any way?

Vanilla extract

Q: To clarify if a product has vanilla extract/flavouring is it necessary to find out (before eating) if the vanilla extract is from dates or grapes? (GMWA have yet to come across flavourings sourced from dates and grapes in the UK market.)